"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Things to do at work!!

saber

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I am at work for eight hours three days a week.

Many days I have absolutely nothing to do. Is anybody else in the same situation...how are you passing the time.

And of course I can't just install video games...the screen has to be completely normal if someone walks in my office all of a sudden.

So basically I need a way to pass time at work without getting caught...sounds stupid since they know I have nothing to work on lol


and i just started online sarging to kill time but only so much you can do at a time
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mr. Wolf

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Establish yourself within organization. Become the alpha male. Find some material on how to become alpha male and study it.. You want to be the man around your work place. Not a doutsch that every one uses or that hides in his office, you want to be provider where it counts, never kissing a55, and giving a hand with conditions applied.

Become an unofficial leader.
 

saber

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thx for the advice but im not interested in any social dynamics at work info just some ways to kill time on the comp
 

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i would listen to my mp3 player, draw or read a book. oh or make up lyrics hey its fun.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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