Glassguy
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As the title states:
Her asking:
"are you ok?"
"Hey I havent heard from you. What have you been up to?"
"I would like to see you again when you can fit me in to your busy schedule"
"Are you going to be free the weekend of ____, I would like to schedule something fun to do with you"
"You are hard to figure out....but I like the mystery of slowly finding more out about you"
"You are one of the busiest people I know"
All good things to hear from a woman. They show that her hamster is spinning and she is making the effort to see you/see you more often. It shows investment on her end. All things that I have had texted to me in the last 10 days. All of the above things are created by being on your purpose, having a life of your own and having an abundance mindset.
Her saying:
"Sorry, I have been busy"
"I will have to check my schedule and let you know"
"We'll see"
"That might work but not sure atm"
"With this virus I am not certain when I will feel comfortable to meet up"
"I thought I responded back to you but I guess I didnt"
All negatives. She has total control if you foolishly stick around and let her pull your puppet strings.
There is always a shift of power in the paradigm of any relationship. He (or she) who holds that power will naturally put forth less effort (or none at all) for the conversation or seeing each other to continue.
Just a gentle reminder that actions and intent are often clearly defined by a woman's words. Pay attention so that you are not wasting precious time, your main commodity, on someone that is genuinely not that interested.
(Mutal) Attraction/Sexual interest is natural preference and cannot be fabricated. No amount of work you can put into something will change the laws of attraction. Put that effort into yourself and become a better version of you, naturally creating more attraction and naturally creating more options as the by product.
If you are in a relationship, there is something called a pull back that you should be doing on occasion. Pull back your interest and see how she responds. Its more or less a manly form of a shyte test.
Anxiety is a good thing. If you are not creating a small amount of anxiety for her in terms of when she will get to see you, when you will be available, wondering how into her you are, she will get bored.
Just a friendly reminder.
Happy hunting.
Her asking:
"are you ok?"
"Hey I havent heard from you. What have you been up to?"
"I would like to see you again when you can fit me in to your busy schedule"
"Are you going to be free the weekend of ____, I would like to schedule something fun to do with you"
"You are hard to figure out....but I like the mystery of slowly finding more out about you"
"You are one of the busiest people I know"
All good things to hear from a woman. They show that her hamster is spinning and she is making the effort to see you/see you more often. It shows investment on her end. All things that I have had texted to me in the last 10 days. All of the above things are created by being on your purpose, having a life of your own and having an abundance mindset.
Her saying:
"Sorry, I have been busy"
"I will have to check my schedule and let you know"
"We'll see"
"That might work but not sure atm"
"With this virus I am not certain when I will feel comfortable to meet up"
"I thought I responded back to you but I guess I didnt"
All negatives. She has total control if you foolishly stick around and let her pull your puppet strings.
There is always a shift of power in the paradigm of any relationship. He (or she) who holds that power will naturally put forth less effort (or none at all) for the conversation or seeing each other to continue.
Just a gentle reminder that actions and intent are often clearly defined by a woman's words. Pay attention so that you are not wasting precious time, your main commodity, on someone that is genuinely not that interested.
(Mutal) Attraction/Sexual interest is natural preference and cannot be fabricated. No amount of work you can put into something will change the laws of attraction. Put that effort into yourself and become a better version of you, naturally creating more attraction and naturally creating more options as the by product.
If you are in a relationship, there is something called a pull back that you should be doing on occasion. Pull back your interest and see how she responds. Its more or less a manly form of a shyte test.
Anxiety is a good thing. If you are not creating a small amount of anxiety for her in terms of when she will get to see you, when you will be available, wondering how into her you are, she will get bored.
Just a friendly reminder.
Happy hunting.