Things at a stand still - wanna move up

[DJoneday]

First off I'd like to thank those who have been giving me tips with this girl so far (she's really inexperienced so I've been bringing her into how things work slowly but surely)...they've all helped like crazy.

I have this girlfriend who's very into me, her friends are telling me how much she talks about me all the time, and when we hang out she's all over me. So far I've gotten my hand up her shirt/under bra during making out...and it's gotten that far the last three times we've gone out (was on vacation, so that amounts to in the last month)

I'm ready to take things up physically, and I know she's incredibly comfortable around me. How would you all suggest I get into more sexual boundaries (fingering/BJ/Touching below the waist period). Before it's usually just been a matter of time before it just happened - but in her inexperience she's been a little shy about taking things up every step of the way.

I can usually get a lot of alone time with her in either her room or my house with no parents around, so I figure that'd be the best time to start something, I'm just not sure how to bring the topic up without her being totally lost.

Any help would be great - thanks.

 

[AC/DC]

Don't do it while you guys are making out, she won't feel too good about not asking her, if it's such a big deal to her.

I'd say "Hey, wanna try something a lil different?" and go from there.

 

[dbot]

well you've managed to get your hand up her shirt, start working your way in the other direction

remember that you gotta make the moves... take her where you want to go, and if she isn't ready, you'll know.

 

[California Love]

Don't "bring it up." If its gonna happen, it'll be natural and you wont need to talk about it. Work your way into it and let her crave some loving.

 

[ak5]

Yea this sounds familiar...how would one go on about making a 'natural' situation for her