manfrombelow
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Since when everything opposed to the West "the wilds"?Please. Go live in the wilds I guess...see you in 5 months.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Since when everything opposed to the West "the wilds"?Please. Go live in the wilds I guess...see you in 5 months.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Agreed, but, again as females grow older and more and more seek independence from dudes (LTR/Marriage/Whatever), they will become upset, angry and resentful towards males and want to hurt them. Look at what they are doing to NY Gov. Cuomo. I was never a fan, but he's being impeached because he hugged a female, kissed a female's hand, and asked a 25 year old aid if she was in a relationship? Most of these issues happened 20+ years ago and he wasn't even governor of the State of NY.Baroness Jones - or what its name is because it doesn't look female nor male - its comment seems to be taken out of proportion here. It was saying it to contrast men saying that women should stay indoors where it's safer.
Still it says a lot about its level of intelligence that it thinks proposing such an amendment, just to make a point, would do it, its feminist movement and what they want to accomplish any good. The fail is strong in this one.
Yes, but there's more going on there. He wouldn't be getting impeached if he still had the full weight of his party behind him. Left lesbo menhaters can only succeed in their mass hysteria witch trials when they have the support of some old powerful men they resent so much. Ironic I know.Agreed, but, again as females grow older and more and more seek independence from dudes (LTR/Marriage/Whatever), they will become upset, angry and resentful towards males and want to hurt them. Look at what they are doing to NY Gov. Cuomo. I was never a fan, but he's being impeached because he hugged a female, kissed a female's hand, and asked a 25 year old aid if she was in a relationship? Most of these issues happened 20+ years ago and he wasn't even governor of the State of NY.
A minority of females are angry and out for blood. If this continues, this can certainly grow to be much worse.
True, but they are only hurting themselves. The public still supports the dude. Me, I'm in CT, but I cannot stand him. However, the witch hunt against him is BS.Yes, but there's more going on there. He wouldn't be getting impeached if he still had the full weight of his party behind him. Left lesbo menhaters can only succeed in their mass hysteria witch trials when they have the support of some old powerful men they resent so much. Ironic I know.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What would stop it from growing? When you have apples rotting admist fresh crisp apples, doesn't the rotting apples in the group make it more likely others will rot?Agreed, but, again as females grow older and more and more seek independence from dudes (LTR/Marriage/Whatever), they will become upset, angry and resentful towards males and want to hurt them. Look at what they are doing to NY Gov. Cuomo. I was never a fan, but he's being impeached because he hugged a female, kissed a female's hand, and asked a 25 year old aid if she was in a relationship? Most of these issues happened 20+ years ago and he wasn't even governor of the State of NY.
A minority of females are angry and out for blood. If this continues, this can certainly grow to be much worse.
How about propose a curfew for women for 6pm if they feel like they are in danger? Best to just stay home. Another illogical feminine thought.This is trending here in the UK and even backed by government in a proposed bill, that ALL MEN should face a 6pm curfew to make women feel safe, following the disappearance of a 33 year old woman in London
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I think it goes back to family values. Since a good amount of children over the past 20 years have experienced single moms and divorced families, there is no father figure in the picture. Therefore, females have become more rambunctious and males have become the typical soy boy putting females on pedestals, etc.What would stop it from growing? When you have apples rotting admist fresh crisp apples, doesn't the rotting apples in the group make it more likely others will rot?
wow. I grew up there, I didn't know it got that badHere's the problem. You guys are Americans and you live under a different system of rules. We don't have free speech up here, you have to REALLY watch what you say and do. I can't just walk around saying or wearing whatever I like. My father wore a trump hat into a cafe once during his election and the police were called. So its more realistic for us to believe that something like this could come to pass in the colonies a lot quicker than in the USA. When the government starts talking about it, you need to listen carefully. I can goto jail here for misgendering a person or disagreeing too loudly with a woman, its already happened to others.
There was a section of text in the original (revised) Ontario sex-ed curriculum released by Wynne [a lesbian premier] and Ben Levin [a convicted Pedophile] that said if a parent disagrees with the education, the children were to tell a 'trusted friend' or government official so that social workers could intervene. This has now become accepted by the education system.
The curriculum consists of the most heinous things you could think of. Think Jerry Springer made for children. There are instructions for children to try anal sex and dildos and when I say children I mean grades 2 and 3. You are not allowed to NOT teach this. It's in the catholic school system and every private school has a mandate to teach it. You are not allowed to disagree with it and you are not allowed to homeschool without it. A friend works in a high school nearby and he says there is a ton of LGBT symbolism plastered all over the school walls and in the classrooms. This is no joke.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The sign of things to come? You can observe how a practice or change in on laws affects the culture by observing other cultures which have made this change.Here's the problem. You guys are Americans and you live under a different system of rules. We don't have free speech up here, you have to REALLY watch what you say and do. I can't just walk around saying or wearing whatever I like. My father wore a trump hat into a cafe once during his election and the police were called. So its more realistic for us to believe that something like this could come to pass in the colonies a lot quicker than in the USA. When the government starts talking about it, you need to listen carefully. I can goto jail here for misgendering a person or disagreeing too loudly with a woman, its already happened to others.
There was a section of text in the original (revised) Ontario sex-ed curriculum released by Wynne [a lesbian premier] and Ben Levin [a convicted Pedophile] that said if a parent disagrees with the education, the children were to tell a 'trusted friend' or government official so that social workers could intervene. This has now become accepted by the education system.
The curriculum consists of the most heinous things you could think of. Think Jerry Springer made for children. There are instructions for children to try anal sex and dildos and when I say children I mean grades 2 and 3. You are not allowed to NOT teach this. It's in the catholic school system and every private school has a mandate to teach it. You are not allowed to disagree with it and you are not allowed to homeschool without it. A friend works in a high school nearby and he says there is a ton of LGBT symbolism plastered all over the school walls and in the classrooms. This is no joke.
This is similar to the recent bill in the Texas legislature where a female representative wants to strike down the “castle doctrine”.I used to think that.. Then Brexit happened.
But anyway, this is just some lunatic fringe stuff. To pass a law you need a majority and men would never vote for it, nor would most women.
Yeah, reminds me of the AOC Green New Deal.From news articles nobody is taking it seriously in the government and people have called it "a totally bonkers idea". Seems you are taking it far more serious than anyone in the government is. Guess it's just something to feel outraged about.
To be clear...there is a huge gap between a weirdo suggesting something and it becoming law. I'd probably spend my time worrying about something more worthwhile cause this isn't it.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.