When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Of course they do. And they don't deserve our help. They need to be killed off.Bible_Belt said:So mass murderers don't have mental problems?
Get out of here with this weak stuff. You can't commit somebody that creeps you out. You know better. None of these lollypops' "mental illness" was even talked about until after the killings.Bible_Belt said:The Batman shooter kid was calling his therapist before he shot up the theater. Under the old involuntary commitment laws, he would in all likelihood have been locked up before he could kill. The Newtown shooter kid creeped everybody out for a long time, too. Mental health care could have prevented those shootings, which would have also prevented the current mass hysteria to either ban or hoard guns.
Pharmaceuticals are supposed to be combined with therapy. But typically, insurance will pay for maybe two therapy sessions a month for six months. However, insurance will pay for the drugs forever. It's similar to our many problems in non-mental health care. It's more profitable to treat the symptoms than solve the problem.Danger said:There is actually an incredible study showing how certain pharmaceuticals have a very strong link with violence.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...drugs-and-violence-review-fda-data-finds-link
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
In 1787, most written communication was through pamphlets and cheaply printed newspapers. The framers could never have envisioned a medium of speech so powerful that a message could instantly be read all over the world. Therefore, when they ratified the first Amendment, they were only thinking of the cheap newspapers of their time, and not the Internet.May_Day said:You people as well as these gun toting nuts are taking the Second Amemdment way too far. The "Right To Bear Arms" was adopted for protection (against The British, soliders, Indians, nomads and for hunting purposes) and for hunting. The Arms they used were muskets and pistols. It wasn't meant for some Hillbilly to have an arsenal and stock pile machine guns and assualt rifles. The Right To Bear Arms was for protection in the home, not for sport shooting and collecting high powered weapons. The gun manufacuters a hundred years later started making these weapons to make money. There is nothing in the constitution that says you should have a right to own any of those assault weapons. They never had them back then, so you don't need them now. The only reason they exist, is because of people making them. A shotgun or a hand gun will do a good job of what the Right to Bear arms is for, which is for protection. You don't need high powered assulat rifles to keep you safe in your home. Nobody is trying to take all guns, only ones that shouldn't be allowed in society, because we never had them before until recently.
Can martial arts stop a bullet? Didn't think so. Shows where you're coming from.LiveFreeX said:I haven't yet comes across a situation where I've needed a gun. I have enough martial arts training to deal with any aggressors...
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
did not stop me from getting ar15 brospeed dawg said:Click here for the next wave logic. Use horrific tragedies to push the agenda.
Just another way for the government to somehow to make money.
Repped, even twentee would be proud of you.goundra said:martial arts can't even stop a pair of guys who have a fist sized stone in each hand, and know to throw them at the same time, from 6-8 ft away, one right after another. ONE of those 4 stones, or half bricks, or hunks of pavement, or pool balls, is going to fvck you up. punks dont need guns, just visciousness and perhaps, a buddy. I can carve you to pieces with nothing more than a 4 ft length of rebar, pipe, rod, or angle iron. So you still need a gun, even if no bad guys have them. besides, what about little women, the elderly, etc? they dont deserve an effective means of defense, right? fvck you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.