You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Of course they do. And they don't deserve our help. They need to be killed off.Bible_Belt said:So mass murderers don't have mental problems?
Get out of here with this weak stuff. You can't commit somebody that creeps you out. You know better. None of these lollypops' "mental illness" was even talked about until after the killings.Bible_Belt said:The Batman shooter kid was calling his therapist before he shot up the theater. Under the old involuntary commitment laws, he would in all likelihood have been locked up before he could kill. The Newtown shooter kid creeped everybody out for a long time, too. Mental health care could have prevented those shootings, which would have also prevented the current mass hysteria to either ban or hoard guns.
Pharmaceuticals are supposed to be combined with therapy. But typically, insurance will pay for maybe two therapy sessions a month for six months. However, insurance will pay for the drugs forever. It's similar to our many problems in non-mental health care. It's more profitable to treat the symptoms than solve the problem.Danger said:There is actually an incredible study showing how certain pharmaceuticals have a very strong link with violence.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...drugs-and-violence-review-fda-data-finds-link
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
In 1787, most written communication was through pamphlets and cheaply printed newspapers. The framers could never have envisioned a medium of speech so powerful that a message could instantly be read all over the world. Therefore, when they ratified the first Amendment, they were only thinking of the cheap newspapers of their time, and not the Internet.May_Day said:You people as well as these gun toting nuts are taking the Second Amemdment way too far. The "Right To Bear Arms" was adopted for protection (against The British, soliders, Indians, nomads and for hunting purposes) and for hunting. The Arms they used were muskets and pistols. It wasn't meant for some Hillbilly to have an arsenal and stock pile machine guns and assualt rifles. The Right To Bear Arms was for protection in the home, not for sport shooting and collecting high powered weapons. The gun manufacuters a hundred years later started making these weapons to make money. There is nothing in the constitution that says you should have a right to own any of those assault weapons. They never had them back then, so you don't need them now. The only reason they exist, is because of people making them. A shotgun or a hand gun will do a good job of what the Right to Bear arms is for, which is for protection. You don't need high powered assulat rifles to keep you safe in your home. Nobody is trying to take all guns, only ones that shouldn't be allowed in society, because we never had them before until recently.
Can martial arts stop a bullet? Didn't think so. Shows where you're coming from.LiveFreeX said:I haven't yet comes across a situation where I've needed a gun. I have enough martial arts training to deal with any aggressors...
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
did not stop me from getting ar15 brospeed dawg said:Click here for the next wave logic. Use horrific tragedies to push the agenda.
Just another way for the government to somehow to make money.
Repped, even twentee would be proud of you.goundra said:martial arts can't even stop a pair of guys who have a fist sized stone in each hand, and know to throw them at the same time, from 6-8 ft away, one right after another. ONE of those 4 stones, or half bricks, or hunks of pavement, or pool balls, is going to fvck you up. punks dont need guns, just visciousness and perhaps, a buddy. I can carve you to pieces with nothing more than a 4 ft length of rebar, pipe, rod, or angle iron. So you still need a gun, even if no bad guys have them. besides, what about little women, the elderly, etc? they dont deserve an effective means of defense, right? fvck you.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.