"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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they always see me as a friend !!

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hi there as u can read above girls always consider me as a (good) friend. BUT I WANT TO GET RID OF THAT IMAGE!!! i dont know what to do!!!!!!!! can anyone give me advice??

P.S. im new to site.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OOOOHHHHH BABY YOU.... YOU GOT WHAT I NEEEEEED..

BUT YOU SAY I'M JUST A FRIEND.:D
 

Iamnotacrook

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Hahahaha... I liked that song, too... I was sort of an AFC when that came out... that was around the time I developed my player-destroying mentality.
 

librito

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hey didi,, we have all being in your exact situation.
you came to the right place.
visit the DJ bible and learn and then apply tecnics.
youll never be the same after visiting this website.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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penkitten

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stop acting like you want to be their friends.
start acting like you want to be their boyfriends or whatever.

when you meet them, flirt!
dont say, heres my number if you ever have nothing to do and wanna hang out sometime. thats a i need a friend line.
do say, heres my number call me if you want to go have some fun.
 

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Originally posted by didi
hi there as u can read above girls always consider me as a (good) friend. BUT I WANT TO GET RID OF THAT IMAGE!!! i dont know what to do!!!!!!!! can anyone give me advice??

P.S. im new to site.


Ya wondering why chicks are only seeing as a friend?......Its taking a lot out of me not to get mean-its like this:A woman will give you what you ask for-Im guessing that you dont flirt with these chicks at all....Im guessing that you are understanding and caring and blah blah... Change your M.O.-any chick you like say this line: Do you have a boyfriend? (This cuts the B.S. out gives you a straight answer AND she knows your intentions)~~~~ She then answers you-then you say because I want to take you out sometime....you get her number-you call her in a couple days-never the same night you get it-go out-bring her back to your place-relax pop in a flick-get close...and there you go! Its that simple man-dont make it complicated-its women were dealing with-not Calculus...


"Turn Fear Into Curiosity"
 
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