"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
they always see me as a friend !!
- Thread starter didi
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
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backbreaker
Master Don Juan
BUT YOU SAY I'M JUST A FRIEND.
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
start acting like you want to be their boyfriends or whatever.
when you meet them, flirt!
dont say, heres my number if you ever have nothing to do and wanna hang out sometime. thats a i need a friend line.
do say, heres my number call me if you want to go have some fun.
Ya wondering why chicks are only seeing as a friend?......Its taking a lot out of me not to get mean-its like this:A woman will give you what you ask for-Im guessing that you dont flirt with these chicks at all....Im guessing that you are understanding and caring and blah blah... Change your M.O.-any chick you like say this line: Do you have a boyfriend? (This cuts the B.S. out gives you a straight answer AND she knows your intentions)~~~~ She then answers you-then you say because I want to take you out sometime....you get her number-you call her in a couple days-never the same night you get it-go out-bring her back to your place-relax pop in a flick-get close...and there you go! Its that simple man-dont make it complicated-its women were dealing with-not Calculus...
"Turn Fear Into Curiosity"