"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
they always see me as a friend !!
- Thread starter didi
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
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backbreaker
Master Don Juan
BUT YOU SAY I'M JUST A FRIEND.
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
start acting like you want to be their boyfriends or whatever.
when you meet them, flirt!
dont say, heres my number if you ever have nothing to do and wanna hang out sometime. thats a i need a friend line.
do say, heres my number call me if you want to go have some fun.
Ya wondering why chicks are only seeing as a friend?......Its taking a lot out of me not to get mean-its like this:A woman will give you what you ask for-Im guessing that you dont flirt with these chicks at all....Im guessing that you are understanding and caring and blah blah... Change your M.O.-any chick you like say this line: Do you have a boyfriend? (This cuts the B.S. out gives you a straight answer AND she knows your intentions)~~~~ She then answers you-then you say because I want to take you out sometime....you get her number-you call her in a couple days-never the same night you get it-go out-bring her back to your place-relax pop in a flick-get close...and there you go! Its that simple man-dont make it complicated-its women were dealing with-not Calculus...
"Turn Fear Into Curiosity"