Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
Nice volume on the rows... I'm sure you've heard about Kroc rows? They'll really help out your deadlift!
Keep it up!
Keep it up!
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yes sirPurefilth said:Still a good run - I'd take it too![]()
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Thanks, and it was actually 2 scoops craze, 1 scoop jack3d....craze is a very weird pre workout, it doesn't bring on a violent fvck-sh1t-up kind of energy like jack3d, it's more of a nootropic, it brings some seriously strange focus (still has a bit of caffeine in it, not a whole lot though). Example: You walk into the weightroom. You know exactly what lifts you will do, and you do them. Even with heavy ass weight..you just look at it, and say, "I'm gonna lift that." And then you do, like there was never any shred of doubt in your mind. Really is a mood elevator, which is good, because sports/lifting/running is mostly mental, you can do more than you think you can.Purefilth said:Hahaha good lad. Only reason I did extra pushups was to hit 200. But then I lost count of how many I had left and went to failurelol that's a looooooot of fvckin pushups
Looks like jack3d seriously amped you up there. Well done.
Yeah man it was insane!Krueg said:Good work Stig, I know what you mean doing dips right after benching, major pump!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Purefilth said:Being well hydrated helps prevent soreness, as does creatine (if its in the craze)- the creatine helps the muscle hold water, so its well lubricated and less likely to damage.
I already take ON Micronized creatine
just my thoughts
Incidentally - i'm gonna hurt lik hell tomorrowit's a satisfying feeling
Thanks filth, and haha funny how sometimes it's good and sometimes it's bad if one is not hurting the day after a hard workoutPurefilth said:Lookin good man - Incidentally, I didnt hurt today - not even on creatine.![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Pshhhhh I already did that when I hit 385, and 405x5 on trap bar :crackup:Purefilth said:Had to go and one up me on 375 now didn't you !![]()
Fukkit - in a couple of months, ill stop hypertrophy and go full on - strength training. and then, my friend ill find a gym with decent equipment and lift the whole fvcking place!TheStig said:Pshhhhh I already did that when I hit 385, and 405x5 on trap bar :crackup:
I'll hold you to that lolPurefilth said:Fukkit - in a couple of months, ill stop hypertrophy and go full on - strength training. and then, my friend ill find a gym with decent equipment and lift the whole fvcking place!![]()
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.