Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
Nice volume on the rows... I'm sure you've heard about Kroc rows? They'll really help out your deadlift!
Keep it up!
Keep it up!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yes sirPurefilth said:Still a good run - I'd take it too![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thanks, and it was actually 2 scoops craze, 1 scoop jack3d....craze is a very weird pre workout, it doesn't bring on a violent fvck-sh1t-up kind of energy like jack3d, it's more of a nootropic, it brings some seriously strange focus (still has a bit of caffeine in it, not a whole lot though). Example: You walk into the weightroom. You know exactly what lifts you will do, and you do them. Even with heavy ass weight..you just look at it, and say, "I'm gonna lift that." And then you do, like there was never any shred of doubt in your mind. Really is a mood elevator, which is good, because sports/lifting/running is mostly mental, you can do more than you think you can.Purefilth said:Hahaha good lad. Only reason I did extra pushups was to hit 200. But then I lost count of how many I had left and went to failurelol that's a looooooot of fvckin pushups
Looks like jack3d seriously amped you up there. Well done.
Yeah man it was insane!Krueg said:Good work Stig, I know what you mean doing dips right after benching, major pump!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Purefilth said:Being well hydrated helps prevent soreness, as does creatine (if its in the craze)- the creatine helps the muscle hold water, so its well lubricated and less likely to damage.
I already take ON Micronized creatine
just my thoughts
Incidentally - i'm gonna hurt lik hell tomorrowit's a satisfying feeling
Thanks filth, and haha funny how sometimes it's good and sometimes it's bad if one is not hurting the day after a hard workoutPurefilth said:Lookin good man - Incidentally, I didnt hurt today - not even on creatine.![]()
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Pshhhhh I already did that when I hit 385, and 405x5 on trap bar :crackup:Purefilth said:Had to go and one up me on 375 now didn't you !![]()
Fukkit - in a couple of months, ill stop hypertrophy and go full on - strength training. and then, my friend ill find a gym with decent equipment and lift the whole fvcking place!TheStig said:Pshhhhh I already did that when I hit 385, and 405x5 on trap bar :crackup:
I'll hold you to that lolPurefilth said:Fukkit - in a couple of months, ill stop hypertrophy and go full on - strength training. and then, my friend ill find a gym with decent equipment and lift the whole fvcking place!![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.