"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thedude4242

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when you are out and you are talking with a few guys and you see a hot girl you would like to do, you say she is hot. you actually have no intentions or use for her. then one of the guys you said it to always says "well go talk to her" like they are some DJ. these are the same guys who fallow women around all night, buy them drinks, do what they tell them to do, ect. the woman is nice to them and flirts with them for whatever reason they other than getting it on. these guys will tell every guy they know that they are going to do her tonight. around the time everyone leaves he fallows that same girl around, almost guarding her and then hits her with some kind of question about what are you doing, where are you going (trying to do them) and seen it coming all night that they where going to get played. your real guy freind(s) call it out to. why would any of these guys being giving advice or even believe their own BS when they are not getting any results.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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maybe be a little clearer with what you are trying to say?
 

Diaforetikos

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If one of your friends says go talk to her, show them that your not a punk, and go talk to her. It'll not only show them that your not an AFC, but you'll get experience as well. Oh well if they aren't good with women. Your learning to become better with women, and they don't know that.

It was annoying at first when my AFC friends would tell me to do something that an AFC would do, but I learned to ignore it. I know what I should be doing. I know things they don't, so I wouldn't take their advice seriously. Do what you know you should do.

But if they tell you to go talk to a girl you consider 'hot', you should of said, "Ok, I will." That was an opportunity that you should have jumped on.
 

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but then I almost feel like them idiots. but then again why try to impress somone who dont know what they are doing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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