"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thedude4242

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when you are out and you are talking with a few guys and you see a hot girl you would like to do, you say she is hot. you actually have no intentions or use for her. then one of the guys you said it to always says "well go talk to her" like they are some DJ. these are the same guys who fallow women around all night, buy them drinks, do what they tell them to do, ect. the woman is nice to them and flirts with them for whatever reason they other than getting it on. these guys will tell every guy they know that they are going to do her tonight. around the time everyone leaves he fallows that same girl around, almost guarding her and then hits her with some kind of question about what are you doing, where are you going (trying to do them) and seen it coming all night that they where going to get played. your real guy freind(s) call it out to. why would any of these guys being giving advice or even believe their own BS when they are not getting any results.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hydroheathen

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maybe be a little clearer with what you are trying to say?
 

Diaforetikos

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If one of your friends says go talk to her, show them that your not a punk, and go talk to her. It'll not only show them that your not an AFC, but you'll get experience as well. Oh well if they aren't good with women. Your learning to become better with women, and they don't know that.

It was annoying at first when my AFC friends would tell me to do something that an AFC would do, but I learned to ignore it. I know what I should be doing. I know things they don't, so I wouldn't take their advice seriously. Do what you know you should do.

But if they tell you to go talk to a girl you consider 'hot', you should of said, "Ok, I will." That was an opportunity that you should have jumped on.
 

thedude4242

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but then I almost feel like them idiots. but then again why try to impress somone who dont know what they are doing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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