"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
There's two types of "guys freinds"..The "Replacement BF" and the "Mangina".
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Buck Rogers
Don Juan
Yes agreed, but thats only if you are hoping to become their bf by entering the relationship as their friend. if you do it this way, yo are doomedJuan_Man said:
from the start.
yes, absoloutley,Cowhead418 said:
if you have a friend who is attractive, there must be an alterior motive, there has to be. For starters, the only reason your likely to talk to an attractive girl in the first place, is because you want to bang her. When does anybody look at a fitty and say "I want to be her friend" it doesnt happen, im not saying that female friends dont work as social proof, i just cant see the logic in making friends with a female for thjat purpose, unless she is unnatractive.
Secondly, what happens when you decide you want to bang your frind, because ultimatley thats going to happen, theres no point avoiding it, because at some point, you are going to want to bang your attractive female friend, then she's no longer your friend, she becomes your "love interest". which ulitmatley leads to oneitis.
gettin to the second point now, even if you are banging someone hotter, lets face it, weve all had the "id bang her" conversation, i dont think there are 2 ways about it, a bloke is guided by his penis and is unlikley to turn any girls down because "Shes his friend".
Yes, you can have aquaitances for social proof, theres nothing wrong with that, wotsoeva, just dont call them your friends because they arnt they are essentially, "chicks you know" these arent your friends they just gilrs you talk too, you dont take a chick to a footie game or arrange to go out drinking with the birds, thats fundametally wrong, if the girls are there, you talk to them, and you have a laugh, but under no circumstance do you call these girlsd your friends, if anything, they are potential shaggs, and should be treated as such.
rant over
One of them is saving me $$$ on some stuff. Another one is helping me out with credit **** and stuff. I can go on and on.
But, if you have these "friends" and they are giving nothing back to you except the great oportunity to go shop together, watch desperate housewives together, and all that amaaaazing fun stuff, I don't see a reason to hang around. It's not that it's THAT bad, it's just that there are other things that are much more productive.
Buck Rogers
Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Wow, talk about another clueless stereotype! You really need to get out there and meet more women!( . )( . ) said:
My female friends and I do lots of cool non-girly stuff like going for drinks, playing pool, cinema, meals, theme parks, I even went rock climbing with a female friend a few months ago.
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Here here, dont you worry jariella I'm just kidding I know sisters are doing it for themselves , mens equal, girl power and all that, settle down tigerJariel said:
I was talking about you.Buck Rogers
Don Juan
yes, but was this with just your female frinds and just you? or were some of your male friends present?Jariel said:
oh yea, just for the record, meals are girly.
Bingo.( . )( . ) said:
I said it before and I will say it again. Female friends make lousy friends. A woman tends to think with her emotions when she picks her "friends". If there is no attraction there for her, then your sole purpose is to entertain her and make her happy as oppose to fvcking her, which will make you happy.Jariel said:
Having female friends will not make you better with women because they are not attracted to you and therefore will not put you through sh1t tests or be slightly apprenhensive about you. Most of the guys who came to this site were as a result of being comfortable around a female friend to a point where they end up liking her. You end up like one of the girlfriends in her eyes.
I remember Pook once said that he can't have any more female friends because it gotten to a point where they all try to fvck him in the end and if he refused then they would act up and pull some sh1t like an AFC guy would.
LIT also said something that was very true:
When you are friend with a female you are her puppet and she runs the show. If you ran the show then it means that she would consider fvcking you and terminate this so called "Platonic Friendship" Charade. Most guys who say that they like female friends and are not attracted to them always pick HOT FEMALE FRIENDS. I have yet to meet a guy who has prospects that is dying to hang around an ugly female friend. Why not you ask? because any guy would rather hang around a female he would fvck later then just a female who will hug him in the end of the day like he is her godamn brother. ANY MAN WOULD RATHER FVCK A WOMAN THEN HANG WITH A WOMAN.Lost In Translation said:
DJD