"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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There's this Chinese girl at my school...

Yuma

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Well, I go to school in San Francisco. so, there are a LOT of Chinese girls here. But, that's beside the point.

Anyway, I met her the other day. I stopped her on her way to class (we were walking the same way regardless) and I asked her her name. She looked at me with a really bright smile and gave it, shook my hand, and we talked for a minute. After that, as it was getting to the time where we had to be in classes, we went our ways.

This was a couple of days ago. She's been smiling and waving at me, there's been playful hitting in passing, but I can't ever seem to get the girl alone to actually talk to her. And, since she's literally Chinese, I don't know if here English is really that great. :/

SO, here's my couple-part question: how does a Don Juan go about getting a girl from a different culture, with a language barrier? AND, how should I go about getting her alone if she's always in that damned group of friends?

I appreciate the help ahead of time. Thanks, guys.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yuma said:
Well, I go to school in San Francisco. so, there are a LOT of Chinese girls here. But, that's beside the point.

Anyway, I met her the other day. I stopped her on her way to class (we were walking the same way regardless) and I asked her her name. She looked at me with a really bright smile and gave it, shook my hand, and we talked for a minute. After that, as it was getting to the time where we had to be in classes, we went our ways.

This was a couple of days ago. She's been smiling and waving at me, there's been playful hitting in passing, but I can't ever seem to get the girl alone to actually talk to her. And, since she's literally Chinese, I don't know if here English is really that great. :/

SO, here's my couple-part question: how does a Don Juan go about getting a girl from a different culture, with a language barrier? AND, how should I go about getting her alone if she's always in that damned group of friends?

I appreciate the help ahead of time. Thanks, guys.
next time when u meet someone, get their #. culture is irrelevent...how bad is her language? you can obviously understand her which is good. I dated this Brazillian girl once, and I had no idea what she was saying half the time, so i would just shake my head and change topics frequently. Fortunately she was really good looking ;)

anyway, get her alone and get her to have a drink with you at a local bar.
 

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playaslaya said:
next time when u meet someone, get their #.
Yeah, I can fault myself for that one. I don't really have an excuse except that I just didn't do it.

But, her language, I guess isn't bad. Good enough to understand what I said, so talking to her again shouldn't be a problem.

Thanks for the advice!
 
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