"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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There's this Chinese girl at my school...

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Well, I go to school in San Francisco. so, there are a LOT of Chinese girls here. But, that's beside the point.

Anyway, I met her the other day. I stopped her on her way to class (we were walking the same way regardless) and I asked her her name. She looked at me with a really bright smile and gave it, shook my hand, and we talked for a minute. After that, as it was getting to the time where we had to be in classes, we went our ways.

This was a couple of days ago. She's been smiling and waving at me, there's been playful hitting in passing, but I can't ever seem to get the girl alone to actually talk to her. And, since she's literally Chinese, I don't know if here English is really that great. :/

SO, here's my couple-part question: how does a Don Juan go about getting a girl from a different culture, with a language barrier? AND, how should I go about getting her alone if she's always in that damned group of friends?

I appreciate the help ahead of time. Thanks, guys.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yuma said:
Well, I go to school in San Francisco. so, there are a LOT of Chinese girls here. But, that's beside the point.

Anyway, I met her the other day. I stopped her on her way to class (we were walking the same way regardless) and I asked her her name. She looked at me with a really bright smile and gave it, shook my hand, and we talked for a minute. After that, as it was getting to the time where we had to be in classes, we went our ways.

This was a couple of days ago. She's been smiling and waving at me, there's been playful hitting in passing, but I can't ever seem to get the girl alone to actually talk to her. And, since she's literally Chinese, I don't know if here English is really that great. :/

SO, here's my couple-part question: how does a Don Juan go about getting a girl from a different culture, with a language barrier? AND, how should I go about getting her alone if she's always in that damned group of friends?

I appreciate the help ahead of time. Thanks, guys.
next time when u meet someone, get their #. culture is irrelevent...how bad is her language? you can obviously understand her which is good. I dated this Brazillian girl once, and I had no idea what she was saying half the time, so i would just shake my head and change topics frequently. Fortunately she was really good looking ;)

anyway, get her alone and get her to have a drink with you at a local bar.
 

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playaslaya said:
next time when u meet someone, get their #.
Yeah, I can fault myself for that one. I don't really have an excuse except that I just didn't do it.

But, her language, I guess isn't bad. Good enough to understand what I said, so talking to her again shouldn't be a problem.

Thanks for the advice!
 
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