Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

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There's this Chinese girl at my school...

Yuma

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Well, I go to school in San Francisco. so, there are a LOT of Chinese girls here. But, that's beside the point.

Anyway, I met her the other day. I stopped her on her way to class (we were walking the same way regardless) and I asked her her name. She looked at me with a really bright smile and gave it, shook my hand, and we talked for a minute. After that, as it was getting to the time where we had to be in classes, we went our ways.

This was a couple of days ago. She's been smiling and waving at me, there's been playful hitting in passing, but I can't ever seem to get the girl alone to actually talk to her. And, since she's literally Chinese, I don't know if here English is really that great. :/

SO, here's my couple-part question: how does a Don Juan go about getting a girl from a different culture, with a language barrier? AND, how should I go about getting her alone if she's always in that damned group of friends?

I appreciate the help ahead of time. Thanks, guys.
 

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Yuma said:
Well, I go to school in San Francisco. so, there are a LOT of Chinese girls here. But, that's beside the point.

Anyway, I met her the other day. I stopped her on her way to class (we were walking the same way regardless) and I asked her her name. She looked at me with a really bright smile and gave it, shook my hand, and we talked for a minute. After that, as it was getting to the time where we had to be in classes, we went our ways.

This was a couple of days ago. She's been smiling and waving at me, there's been playful hitting in passing, but I can't ever seem to get the girl alone to actually talk to her. And, since she's literally Chinese, I don't know if here English is really that great. :/

SO, here's my couple-part question: how does a Don Juan go about getting a girl from a different culture, with a language barrier? AND, how should I go about getting her alone if she's always in that damned group of friends?

I appreciate the help ahead of time. Thanks, guys.
next time when u meet someone, get their #. culture is irrelevent...how bad is her language? you can obviously understand her which is good. I dated this Brazillian girl once, and I had no idea what she was saying half the time, so i would just shake my head and change topics frequently. Fortunately she was really good looking ;)

anyway, get her alone and get her to have a drink with you at a local bar.
 

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playaslaya said:
next time when u meet someone, get their #.
Yeah, I can fault myself for that one. I don't really have an excuse except that I just didn't do it.

But, her language, I guess isn't bad. Good enough to understand what I said, so talking to her again shouldn't be a problem.

Thanks for the advice!
 
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