"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
There's Nothing Wrong with Being a "Nice Guy"
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Read page 31-33, and it's all gonna make sense.
http://books.google.com/books?vid=I...mbarrassment"&sig=LaMyp7n6zfQxXXIK0XZViKt-pAs
"Nice guys" are basically our equivalent of "fat chicks" to girls. I think it explains the whole social standing of nice guys and jerks very well.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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You are right dude, many dudes on this site have this stupid idea that all bad boys are DJ's and all nice guys are AFC's, this however isn't true, attracting hot babes is more about the dudes charisma than his attitude.:yes:Sean O said:
Now when you look at it the definition of the stereotypical nice guy:
A guy who accepts bad behaviour from others.
A guy who is always nice to people even though they truly do not deserve any decency at all.
A guy who allows bad behaviour to happen to him from others and accepts it and does not do anything at all to fight it or disapprove of it or walk away from it.
A nice guy always makes excuses for other people's fuc* ups.
A nice guy will tolerate being treated badly and keep going back for round two or three as he always excuses the bad behaviour as a problem from the other person in that he excuses being treated like shi*.
A nice guy will tread carefully and not break the mould, to slot in and comply since it is nice and safe, in a bubble of security and happily going along with the crowd even if it really does not suit him internally, he simply is doing it to slot in to conform to be nice.
A nice guy will go out of his way to please others, even though these others would not go out of there way to please him in anyway shape or form.
A nice guy is always there to sacrifice his self worth to others that would not make the same sacrifices, he is the toy of the selfish person and the selfish would use and exploit his giving nature, but he simply would excuse it for there faults and not his own.
A nice guy will end an argument by blaming himself no matter what the evidence, he will simply accept responsibility and apologise for some-one else mistakes.
Also a nice guy would use manipluative tactics in a wimp style fashion to win over others, fake friendships, be a surrogate BF et.c.
Nice guys always need to be liked.
E.T.C
There is nothing wrong with being civil to others, there is nothing wrong with showing chivalry to women and being nice to them.
There is nothing wrong with giving respect to others, when respect is due and supporting people around you.
There is nothing wrong with being a support for your friends and your GF’s.
There is nothing wrong with helping people who you genuinely have a deep respect for.
e.t.c
what is wrong is when you do the things that are deemed nice, at the cost of your own self respect!
The nice guy tag is fitted to the wimp, but the truth there is a huge difference, being a wimp will allow people a free ticket to walk all over you and be at there beck and call and live by there world.
A nice guy knows he is his own man and not a supplicating wimp.
And a nice guy would not tolerate female BS. A jerk would blow out female BS, a nice guy would see it for what is and call it out for what it is.
Nice guys dont finish last, they where never in the race to begin with imo.
They are sat on the side wondering wtf the wimp and the jerk are competing at.