"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
There's Nothing Wrong with Being a "Nice Guy"
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Read page 31-33, and it's all gonna make sense.
http://books.google.com/books?vid=I...mbarrassment"&sig=LaMyp7n6zfQxXXIK0XZViKt-pAs
"Nice guys" are basically our equivalent of "fat chicks" to girls. I think it explains the whole social standing of nice guys and jerks very well.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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You are right dude, many dudes on this site have this stupid idea that all bad boys are DJ's and all nice guys are AFC's, this however isn't true, attracting hot babes is more about the dudes charisma than his attitude.:yes:Sean O said:
Now when you look at it the definition of the stereotypical nice guy:
A guy who accepts bad behaviour from others.
A guy who is always nice to people even though they truly do not deserve any decency at all.
A guy who allows bad behaviour to happen to him from others and accepts it and does not do anything at all to fight it or disapprove of it or walk away from it.
A nice guy always makes excuses for other people's fuc* ups.
A nice guy will tolerate being treated badly and keep going back for round two or three as he always excuses the bad behaviour as a problem from the other person in that he excuses being treated like shi*.
A nice guy will tread carefully and not break the mould, to slot in and comply since it is nice and safe, in a bubble of security and happily going along with the crowd even if it really does not suit him internally, he simply is doing it to slot in to conform to be nice.
A nice guy will go out of his way to please others, even though these others would not go out of there way to please him in anyway shape or form.
A nice guy is always there to sacrifice his self worth to others that would not make the same sacrifices, he is the toy of the selfish person and the selfish would use and exploit his giving nature, but he simply would excuse it for there faults and not his own.
A nice guy will end an argument by blaming himself no matter what the evidence, he will simply accept responsibility and apologise for some-one else mistakes.
Also a nice guy would use manipluative tactics in a wimp style fashion to win over others, fake friendships, be a surrogate BF et.c.
Nice guys always need to be liked.
E.T.C
There is nothing wrong with being civil to others, there is nothing wrong with showing chivalry to women and being nice to them.
There is nothing wrong with giving respect to others, when respect is due and supporting people around you.
There is nothing wrong with being a support for your friends and your GF’s.
There is nothing wrong with helping people who you genuinely have a deep respect for.
e.t.c
what is wrong is when you do the things that are deemed nice, at the cost of your own self respect!
The nice guy tag is fitted to the wimp, but the truth there is a huge difference, being a wimp will allow people a free ticket to walk all over you and be at there beck and call and live by there world.
A nice guy knows he is his own man and not a supplicating wimp.
And a nice guy would not tolerate female BS. A jerk would blow out female BS, a nice guy would see it for what is and call it out for what it is.
Nice guys dont finish last, they where never in the race to begin with imo.
They are sat on the side wondering wtf the wimp and the jerk are competing at.