"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well shes dating someone else and hes already (or maybe not yet) her boyfriend.

But she was sexually attracted to my photos and now tells me (initiated by her) that we should meet for a coffee.

note, we were flirting a lot till she told me shes meeting someone.


this is weird because Im not friendzone type, never got friendzoned, never made many attempts tho, but thing is im tall and ya know, fit.

is it normal for females to force meetings with people that they are attracted to even if they have boyfriend? cause im sure im not friendzone type and we didnt even meet (never). i got her from tinder.

all my exes had MALE friends but they were UNATTRACTIVE! im not saying im the best catch but she was flirting with me only cuz she liked my look and the way I text.


ps i was totally fine with her meeting someone i didnt really try to invite her anywhere for first meeting (and we were chatting for 2 months, it was sexual talk so i liked it)



note im not oneitus (im zeroitus but dont really mind it, busy with life) but i find it interesting. maybe she disliked the new boy? (probably not as fit as me)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sosousage said:
this is weird because Im not friendzone type

cause im sure im not friendzone type

(and we were chatting for 2 months, it was sexual talk so i liked it)
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Stop friend zoning yourself. Be decisive. You’re only an attention feeder…
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sosousage said:
Well shes dating someone else and hes already (or maybe not yet) her boyfriend.

But she was sexually attracted to my photos and now tells me (initiated by her) that we should meet for a coffee.

note, we were flirting a lot till she told me shes meeting someone.


this is weird because Im not friendzone type, never got friendzoned, never made many attempts tho, but thing is im tall and ya know, fit.

is it normal for females to force meetings with people that they are attracted to even if they have boyfriend? cause im sure im not friendzone type and we didnt even meet (never). i got her from tinder.

all my exes had MALE friends but they were UNATTRACTIVE! im not saying im the best catch but she was flirting with me only cuz she liked my look and the way I text.


ps i was totally fine with her meeting someone i didnt really try to invite her anywhere for first meeting (and we were chatting for 2 months, it was sexual talk so i liked it)



note im not oneitus (im zeroitus but dont really mind it, busy with life) but i find it interesting. maybe she disliked the new boy? (probably not as fit as me)
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Her: "I've been seeing someone else"

You: "I pet other peoples dogs"

Alternate wording

Her: "I have a bf"

You: "I have a cat"


Feel free to interchange dog and cat depending on whether you're a dog person or a cat person.
 
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