"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Theres a woman

sosousage

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Well shes dating someone else and hes already (or maybe not yet) her boyfriend.

But she was sexually attracted to my photos and now tells me (initiated by her) that we should meet for a coffee.

note, we were flirting a lot till she told me shes meeting someone.


this is weird because Im not friendzone type, never got friendzoned, never made many attempts tho, but thing is im tall and ya know, fit.

is it normal for females to force meetings with people that they are attracted to even if they have boyfriend? cause im sure im not friendzone type and we didnt even meet (never). i got her from tinder.

all my exes had MALE friends but they were UNATTRACTIVE! im not saying im the best catch but she was flirting with me only cuz she liked my look and the way I text.


ps i was totally fine with her meeting someone i didnt really try to invite her anywhere for first meeting (and we were chatting for 2 months, it was sexual talk so i liked it)



note im not oneitus (im zeroitus but dont really mind it, busy with life) but i find it interesting. maybe she disliked the new boy? (probably not as fit as me)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Billtx49

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this is weird because Im not friendzone type

cause im sure im not friendzone type

(and we were chatting for 2 months, it was sexual talk so i liked it)
Stop friend zoning yourself. Be decisive. You’re only an attention feeder…
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MrJack

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Well shes dating someone else and hes already (or maybe not yet) her boyfriend.

But she was sexually attracted to my photos and now tells me (initiated by her) that we should meet for a coffee.

note, we were flirting a lot till she told me shes meeting someone.


this is weird because Im not friendzone type, never got friendzoned, never made many attempts tho, but thing is im tall and ya know, fit.

is it normal for females to force meetings with people that they are attracted to even if they have boyfriend? cause im sure im not friendzone type and we didnt even meet (never). i got her from tinder.

all my exes had MALE friends but they were UNATTRACTIVE! im not saying im the best catch but she was flirting with me only cuz she liked my look and the way I text.


ps i was totally fine with her meeting someone i didnt really try to invite her anywhere for first meeting (and we were chatting for 2 months, it was sexual talk so i liked it)



note im not oneitus (im zeroitus but dont really mind it, busy with life) but i find it interesting. maybe she disliked the new boy? (probably not as fit as me)
Her: "I've been seeing someone else"

You: "I pet other peoples dogs"

Alternate wording

Her: "I have a bf"

You: "I have a cat"


Feel free to interchange dog and cat depending on whether you're a dog person or a cat person.
 
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