You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Does he mean the guys too?Make sure you remember to grab their numbers, you're good
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hahah, it's so true about drunk people thinking you're their best friend even when you just met them.Luke!! said:This is what I like to do. If you only know a few people, go early. Thats if the people you know are there early. This is the way I like to build social proof in the party. When people start coming in meet them before they get drunk. Later on in the night when you see them, they will be hammered and scream your name like you have known them forever. This will give you the social proof you need later on in the night when you have picked your target.
Once the party is actually popping, find your target. This is where I prefer to use a wing. Most girls will be with other girls so your wing helps the pressure off you.
Get you and your wing to approach the targets and make em feel comfortable. Have fun and exciting conversation. Take your targets away from the crowd. Not total isolation but just enough for some more talking. Once both you and your wingman have put enough damage into them that you feel you can both isolate, do it. Once isolated use strong eye contact and be close to your target. You both know why you left the party. So don't worry about getting turned down.
If your looking to get sex make sure you have a room where you can take her or somewhere that is away from the party and a place you could actually have sex.
Theres probably better stuff, but thats just my method.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.