"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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theres a house party 2morow - giv me tips fast!

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hey guys, theres a house party 2morow...

giv tips on how to hook up....party like fuk!....n get numbers....btw i omly know 5 ppl there, its a huge party....

guys just giv me any advice....nething lol pce
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Get as amped as you can, and party like your ideal party animal. Go up to people be like hey what's up, as ^ said later when everyone's hammered/high/whatever you and them can be like YOOOOO NAME WHATS UP MY MAN and just amp up everyone, make everyone feel good. Be as crazy as you can without making a complete dumbass of yourself (pretty hard to do when everyone's drinking as well as you). Make sure you remember to grab their numbers, you're good

For *****es, let your drunk instincts take over if she is too. If not, put on some game and eventually find a way to get her somewhere a little more private, like a couch or big chair or something.
 
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dont be "that guy"
He literarly has zero social proof

"that guy" is the one guy at the party who is more obnoxious than the rest, drunker than the rest, more immature than the rest, just flat out annoying. You can always tell whos "that guy" by the eye rolling and mocking he receives the second he turns his back.

If you dont see anyone getting eye rolled and mocked then thats because your being "that guy"

Have a good time and party crazy, just be sure to control your alcohol.

What Luke said is spot on too.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Have a positive and fun attitude. Be social and get to know people. Ask about them; what they do, what they like and ect. Listen for key things people say and go off on what they said.

If you know some funny jokes... tell them. Got a good story? Tell it. You see a girl you like... Go talk to her.
 
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I wanted to post this last night but there was somethin wrong with my internet:

hey broski's, im back from the party and its almost 1am.

i just wanna say....IT WAS WORTH IT!

guys its like i wen i got there i was this other guy, an alpha....anyways im just gonna giv u a quick highlight....some ****ed sh*t also happened.

- K so me and 2 of my buddies get there, i start talkin to ppl and get to know most of them there.

- There is this one hottie i keep flirting with(kino helped a lot)

-i basically chill with diferent groups of ppl for most of the time....ppl r slowly getting drunk.

-its getting late me and my buddies r chillin in a corner in the yard(its darkoutside...so its a little hard to see)

- at this point ive flirted with a lot of girls...been the life of the party for most of the sets n groups ive opened.

-Then out of know there this fuked up drunk guy pushes me from behind hard and i fall down...this mofos lookin for a fight...

- I avoid it cuz they wer like 6 of them and 3 of us...but it was unexpected so im like wtf jus happened? Even though i wanted to **** the guy up and i usually to but there wer too many of them.

- Anyways the night goes by and i continue with runnin game & flirting, especially on my target.

- at the end wen im about to leave we all hug goodbye...but wen she hugs me i wisper in her ear..."how bout a goodbye kiss?"...n shes like maybe some other time....n i tell her in a really alpha way its fine dnt wry about it(it was in a way that u could sense she was the one missin out)...

- then wat happens is...she stares into my eyes...n she comes in for another hug....i hug her but this time after the hug(were kinda still huggin eachother)...she tilts her...i sense it right away, we makout for like a minute...meanwhile i rub my hand over her as*s...n then work it up to her right boob...give it a slight squeeze (just like ive seen lesbians do it in porn)...n then we end it n she says i wanna talk to u later... i tell her sure, take care ..n me and ma boyz leave.

Anyways....that makeout made my day...even though i got pushed hard from behind by a huge drunk guy...it was sick for my first house party.

thx for tips guys, pce
 
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guys u can still comment on dis shyt...n tell me how i couldve done ti better yo
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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W8 WTF!!! This is the wrong thread!! sry man ma bat LOL
 
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Luke!! said:
This is what I like to do. If you only know a few people, go early. Thats if the people you know are there early. This is the way I like to build social proof in the party. When people start coming in meet them before they get drunk. Later on in the night when you see them, they will be hammered and scream your name like you have known them forever. This will give you the social proof you need later on in the night when you have picked your target.

Once the party is actually popping, find your target. This is where I prefer to use a wing. Most girls will be with other girls so your wing helps the pressure off you.

Get you and your wing to approach the targets and make em feel comfortable. Have fun and exciting conversation. Take your targets away from the crowd. Not total isolation but just enough for some more talking. Once both you and your wingman have put enough damage into them that you feel you can both isolate, do it. Once isolated use strong eye contact and be close to your target. You both know why you left the party. So don't worry about getting turned down.

If your looking to get sex make sure you have a room where you can take her or somewhere that is away from the party and a place you could actually have sex.

Theres probably better stuff, but thats just my method.
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Hahah, it's so true about drunk people thinking you're their best friend even when you just met them.
 
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Just get drunk and talk to people its easy
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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