"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There is no such thing as "transgender"

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That was right on the money, Wyldfyre.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wyldfire said:
Obsidian...as you pointed out...you aren't a psychologist. I'm not either...yet, but am currently in college to become one. I've also studied psychology for over 25 years.

I'm also a LOGICAL person. Me being a woman has nothing to do with the subject at hand. I'm not a "hippie" either...I'm actually somewhat conservative politically...so do not assume that I must be an "illogical liberal hippie" to disagree with you.

While I would not ever support a child being allowed to have a sex change operation...I would also never support a parent trying to beat a child into conformity when they have a mental health issue that causes their behavior. Sometimes you need to set aside your own personal feelings and just do what is best for the child. Unconditional love and support and an education is necessary in situations such as this. Yes, you try to encourage the child to embrace their gender...but the harder you push the more they will resist. That's how children are. If you act like it's not a big deal and don't over-react the child is actually MORE likely to out-grow it and eventually embrace the gender they were born as.

You are dead wrong on this issue.
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This is blasphemy and far from conservative!!!!!!!!! This is the Homoi/Hor shyt that I've been hearing for forty years ---- emotional appeals over reason - perversions and corruption over good and just!!!!! Death to the feminist agenda and the proponents thereof!!!!!

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That was right on the money, Wyldfyre.
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Wake up - The Homo//Hor Matrix has you!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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L_M_S, you're the one who's giving in to emotion. Hate, in your case.

What a mixed-up individual who does not identify with their gender does is not my business, as long as they don't do anything bad to me.
 
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