"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There is no such thing as "transgender"

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That was right on the money, Wyldfyre.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wyldfire said:
Obsidian...as you pointed out...you aren't a psychologist. I'm not either...yet, but am currently in college to become one. I've also studied psychology for over 25 years.

I'm also a LOGICAL person. Me being a woman has nothing to do with the subject at hand. I'm not a "hippie" either...I'm actually somewhat conservative politically...so do not assume that I must be an "illogical liberal hippie" to disagree with you.

While I would not ever support a child being allowed to have a sex change operation...I would also never support a parent trying to beat a child into conformity when they have a mental health issue that causes their behavior. Sometimes you need to set aside your own personal feelings and just do what is best for the child. Unconditional love and support and an education is necessary in situations such as this. Yes, you try to encourage the child to embrace their gender...but the harder you push the more they will resist. That's how children are. If you act like it's not a big deal and don't over-react the child is actually MORE likely to out-grow it and eventually embrace the gender they were born as.

You are dead wrong on this issue.
This is blasphemy and far from conservative!!!!!!!!! This is the Homoi/Hor shyt that I've been hearing for forty years ---- emotional appeals over reason - perversions and corruption over good and just!!!!! Death to the feminist agenda and the proponents thereof!!!!!

Bonhomme said:
That was right on the money, Wyldfyre.
Wake up - The Homo//Hor Matrix has you!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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L_M_S, you're the one who's giving in to emotion. Hate, in your case.

What a mixed-up individual who does not identify with their gender does is not my business, as long as they don't do anything bad to me.
 
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