"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There is no such thing as "transgender"

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That was right on the money, Wyldfyre.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wyldfire said:
Obsidian...as you pointed out...you aren't a psychologist. I'm not either...yet, but am currently in college to become one. I've also studied psychology for over 25 years.

I'm also a LOGICAL person. Me being a woman has nothing to do with the subject at hand. I'm not a "hippie" either...I'm actually somewhat conservative politically...so do not assume that I must be an "illogical liberal hippie" to disagree with you.

While I would not ever support a child being allowed to have a sex change operation...I would also never support a parent trying to beat a child into conformity when they have a mental health issue that causes their behavior. Sometimes you need to set aside your own personal feelings and just do what is best for the child. Unconditional love and support and an education is necessary in situations such as this. Yes, you try to encourage the child to embrace their gender...but the harder you push the more they will resist. That's how children are. If you act like it's not a big deal and don't over-react the child is actually MORE likely to out-grow it and eventually embrace the gender they were born as.

You are dead wrong on this issue.
This is blasphemy and far from conservative!!!!!!!!! This is the Homoi/Hor shyt that I've been hearing for forty years ---- emotional appeals over reason - perversions and corruption over good and just!!!!! Death to the feminist agenda and the proponents thereof!!!!!

Bonhomme said:
That was right on the money, Wyldfyre.
Wake up - The Homo//Hor Matrix has you!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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L_M_S, you're the one who's giving in to emotion. Hate, in your case.

What a mixed-up individual who does not identify with their gender does is not my business, as long as they don't do anything bad to me.
 
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