"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Today I went to a dance and I was talking to this girl. I met her at school but I really didnt know a lot about her.

Most of the time we talked and walked. However when we walked we started holding hands and sometimes she grabbed my hand.

I was way nervous :nervous: and I wanted to kiss her but I didnt know how to do it and I was afraid that it would be to awkward.

By the end of the night I pecked her on the cheek and we said good bye. I wanted more but I just felt really nervous but I had a good day.

So now what I want to know is how do you get a girl to kiss you?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You go in for the kiss, i.e. you initiate it :)
 
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Here is something you can do...

Lamia: Here is what you need to do to make things easier for you to kiss her, properly.

1) Arrange for you and her to do something together. A movie, a picnic (I like the beach for a picnic), or anywhere where you and her will have some alone / personal time.

2) Just enjoy each others company, get to know each other better.

3) Ask her to go for a walk with you, doesn’t have to be a long walk

4) While you are walking, hold her hand and continue to walk, while observing her reactions.

5) If she hold your hand back then continue walking for a minute or 2 and then say something along the lines of "Wow look at the ocean/mountain/flower/whatever, its so beautiful... *look at her* but I think you're even more beautiful" :)

At this stage she should be flattered by you, and this would be a great time to kiss her. This girl has given you obvious signs that she is into you, I don’t think you have much to worry about. ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Lamia said:
big you make it sound so easy lol
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that's because it is. Just doo it. She took the energy to initiate, that means she's interested. So just escalate it the next time, go in and get more than a peck ;)
 
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DontQuitYet said:
that's because it is. Just doo it. She took the energy to initiate, that means she's interested. So just escalate it the next time, go in and get more than a peck ;)
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I'm going out with her saturday to the beach
wish me luck!
 
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