“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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There but not there

Lamia

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Today I went to a dance and I was talking to this girl. I met her at school but I really didnt know a lot about her.

Most of the time we talked and walked. However when we walked we started holding hands and sometimes she grabbed my hand.

I was way nervous :nervous: and I wanted to kiss her but I didnt know how to do it and I was afraid that it would be to awkward.

By the end of the night I pecked her on the cheek and we said good bye. I wanted more but I just felt really nervous but I had a good day.

So now what I want to know is how do you get a girl to kiss you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You go in for the kiss, i.e. you initiate it :)
 

Climax

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Here is something you can do...

Lamia: Here is what you need to do to make things easier for you to kiss her, properly.

1) Arrange for you and her to do something together. A movie, a picnic (I like the beach for a picnic), or anywhere where you and her will have some alone / personal time.

2) Just enjoy each others company, get to know each other better.

3) Ask her to go for a walk with you, doesn’t have to be a long walk

4) While you are walking, hold her hand and continue to walk, while observing her reactions.

5) If she hold your hand back then continue walking for a minute or 2 and then say something along the lines of "Wow look at the ocean/mountain/flower/whatever, its so beautiful... *look at her* but I think you're even more beautiful" :)

At this stage she should be flattered by you, and this would be a great time to kiss her. This girl has given you obvious signs that she is into you, I don’t think you have much to worry about. ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lamia said:
big you make it sound so easy lol
that's because it is. Just doo it. She took the energy to initiate, that means she's interested. So just escalate it the next time, go in and get more than a peck ;)
 

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DontQuitYet said:
that's because it is. Just doo it. She took the energy to initiate, that means she's interested. So just escalate it the next time, go in and get more than a peck ;)
I'm going out with her saturday to the beach
wish me luck!
 
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