"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Today I went to a dance and I was talking to this girl. I met her at school but I really didnt know a lot about her.

Most of the time we talked and walked. However when we walked we started holding hands and sometimes she grabbed my hand.

I was way nervous :nervous: and I wanted to kiss her but I didnt know how to do it and I was afraid that it would be to awkward.

By the end of the night I pecked her on the cheek and we said good bye. I wanted more but I just felt really nervous but I had a good day.

So now what I want to know is how do you get a girl to kiss you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You go in for the kiss, i.e. you initiate it :)
 
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Here is something you can do...

Lamia: Here is what you need to do to make things easier for you to kiss her, properly.

1) Arrange for you and her to do something together. A movie, a picnic (I like the beach for a picnic), or anywhere where you and her will have some alone / personal time.

2) Just enjoy each others company, get to know each other better.

3) Ask her to go for a walk with you, doesn’t have to be a long walk

4) While you are walking, hold her hand and continue to walk, while observing her reactions.

5) If she hold your hand back then continue walking for a minute or 2 and then say something along the lines of "Wow look at the ocean/mountain/flower/whatever, its so beautiful... *look at her* but I think you're even more beautiful" :)

At this stage she should be flattered by you, and this would be a great time to kiss her. This girl has given you obvious signs that she is into you, I don’t think you have much to worry about. ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lamia said:
big you make it sound so easy lol
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that's because it is. Just doo it. She took the energy to initiate, that means she's interested. So just escalate it the next time, go in and get more than a peck ;)
 
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DontQuitYet said:
that's because it is. Just doo it. She took the energy to initiate, that means she's interested. So just escalate it the next time, go in and get more than a peck ;)
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I'm going out with her saturday to the beach
wish me luck!
 
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