"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The "Zero Eye Contact" opener

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I am ususally acting like I am reading a tablet.

Demonpenz: Are you excited
Girl: *Looks up* for what?
Demonpenz: Your in the presence of greatness!
Girl: Oh really?
Demonpenz: Demonpenz shows her a picture of him dunking a basketball

*SEX CLOSE IN STARBUCKS!*
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bump, because the method is field-tested and proven to work effectively.
 

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Excellent and I use this a lot with a cell phone. When they think you should be having EC with them but instead reading texts it fries the hamster.
 

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That's right, it's only an opener for getting around her b!tch shield. It completely obliterates the shield for enough time to establish communication.
 

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I actually don't really care for this. It strikes me as rather contrived and full of mental masturbation. I don't care at all for the idea of "I'm so above you that I don't need to look at you" and find it to just be going way overboard with the "be the prize" concept.

There's no point. You're opening her. She knows you're hitting on her, especially if she's attractive. Why are you talking to her instead of the hundreds of other people around? And in a cold approach you're going to have to close. Meaning you must show interest eventually. Qualifying is very important in a cold approach, but the cold, hard truth about cold approaching is that oftentimes you don't have enough time to do that given the situation. You're on your way somewhere, she's gotta be somewhere, she's at work and has to get back to her customers, you guys are outside and it's freezing, etc. It's just not going to make sense if you're all "I'm completely above you" and then "What's your phone number."

I cold approach almost at least once every day. I'll give this a fair shot. Atom, there's probably more to this than I'm reading into, and I'm sure I'd get a better picture if I saw you do it in person. But based on what I've read here, I really dislike this idea.



EDIT: Well, just read through the thread again, I can see it working for a seasoned man who is very familiar with celebrities and the way they act. I think I'm way too friendly and earnest for this sort of opener to be congruent with my personality.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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actually ignoring or not paying attention to a hottie always worked for me, they are not use to it, and it seems like they find a way to get my attention if they are interested.
 
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