"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The "Zero Eye Contact" opener

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I am ususally acting like I am reading a tablet.

Demonpenz: Are you excited
Girl: *Looks up* for what?
Demonpenz: Your in the presence of greatness!
Girl: Oh really?
Demonpenz: Demonpenz shows her a picture of him dunking a basketball

*SEX CLOSE IN STARBUCKS!*
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bump, because the method is field-tested and proven to work effectively.
 

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Excellent and I use this a lot with a cell phone. When they think you should be having EC with them but instead reading texts it fries the hamster.
 

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That's right, it's only an opener for getting around her b!tch shield. It completely obliterates the shield for enough time to establish communication.
 

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I actually don't really care for this. It strikes me as rather contrived and full of mental masturbation. I don't care at all for the idea of "I'm so above you that I don't need to look at you" and find it to just be going way overboard with the "be the prize" concept.

There's no point. You're opening her. She knows you're hitting on her, especially if she's attractive. Why are you talking to her instead of the hundreds of other people around? And in a cold approach you're going to have to close. Meaning you must show interest eventually. Qualifying is very important in a cold approach, but the cold, hard truth about cold approaching is that oftentimes you don't have enough time to do that given the situation. You're on your way somewhere, she's gotta be somewhere, she's at work and has to get back to her customers, you guys are outside and it's freezing, etc. It's just not going to make sense if you're all "I'm completely above you" and then "What's your phone number."

I cold approach almost at least once every day. I'll give this a fair shot. Atom, there's probably more to this than I'm reading into, and I'm sure I'd get a better picture if I saw you do it in person. But based on what I've read here, I really dislike this idea.



EDIT: Well, just read through the thread again, I can see it working for a seasoned man who is very familiar with celebrities and the way they act. I think I'm way too friendly and earnest for this sort of opener to be congruent with my personality.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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actually ignoring or not paying attention to a hottie always worked for me, they are not use to it, and it seems like they find a way to get my attention if they are interested.
 
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