"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The X-Factor

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I have noticed that when I notice a girl, it's not all about how "hot" they are. Don't get me wrong, I notice beautiful women, but their seems to be more to my level of attraction to them than their raw appearance. I don't know what this is, because I have found in the past that I can be significantly more sexually attracted to some 7's than other 9's all other things being equal. I've always thought of the factor that can bring a 7's sexual attractiveness above a 9's as the X-factor.

Do you guys feel like this at all and have any idea what this X-factor could be? I don't know if it is female game, the projection of higher sexual availability, or maybe the less pretty girl just typifies a body morphology I am more attracted to than the prettier girl. Who knows. Any ideas?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have also wondered about this.

I have seen some girls whom I would normally think are on the ugly side, but they project this raw sexuality that I haven't yet been able to define.

It's a projection, it's almost like certain exaggerated expressions with the mouth, but there's more to it than that.
 

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Personally I never could relate to the obsession with extremely gorgeous girls. I was always more attracted to kind of "non-traditional" looking girls....pretty but maybe odd in some way. I've just never been a chaser of 9's and the mythical 10. Too much work for no additional benefit to my life.

And after having been with dozens of different women, I realized that all cats are grey in the dark, so to speak. The pvssy of a 9 is no different than that of a 6, relatively speaking. As long as the girl you like gives you a good hard boner, and you are proud to have her around your arm in public, it's all good.

I will say though that she should look the way you like from day one. If you don't like her waist, hair quality, breath, or some other feature you should consider finding another girl for a long-term prospect, because it will NOT get better with time.
 

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Oh hell yeah. Give me a less traditionally attractive woman who has had lots of athleticism in her life and distinctive looks over a tanning bed, fake tit, meat on the hoof standardized look any day. I may be the only man in the U.S. who would walk right past Kim Kardashian without a second glance.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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