“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The X-Factor

ebracer05

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I have noticed that when I notice a girl, it's not all about how "hot" they are. Don't get me wrong, I notice beautiful women, but their seems to be more to my level of attraction to them than their raw appearance. I don't know what this is, because I have found in the past that I can be significantly more sexually attracted to some 7's than other 9's all other things being equal. I've always thought of the factor that can bring a 7's sexual attractiveness above a 9's as the X-factor.

Do you guys feel like this at all and have any idea what this X-factor could be? I don't know if it is female game, the projection of higher sexual availability, or maybe the less pretty girl just typifies a body morphology I am more attracted to than the prettier girl. Who knows. Any ideas?
 

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I have also wondered about this.

I have seen some girls whom I would normally think are on the ugly side, but they project this raw sexuality that I haven't yet been able to define.

It's a projection, it's almost like certain exaggerated expressions with the mouth, but there's more to it than that.
 

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Personally I never could relate to the obsession with extremely gorgeous girls. I was always more attracted to kind of "non-traditional" looking girls....pretty but maybe odd in some way. I've just never been a chaser of 9's and the mythical 10. Too much work for no additional benefit to my life.

And after having been with dozens of different women, I realized that all cats are grey in the dark, so to speak. The pvssy of a 9 is no different than that of a 6, relatively speaking. As long as the girl you like gives you a good hard boner, and you are proud to have her around your arm in public, it's all good.

I will say though that she should look the way you like from day one. If you don't like her waist, hair quality, breath, or some other feature you should consider finding another girl for a long-term prospect, because it will NOT get better with time.
 

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Oh hell yeah. Give me a less traditionally attractive woman who has had lots of athleticism in her life and distinctive looks over a tanning bed, fake tit, meat on the hoof standardized look any day. I may be the only man in the U.S. who would walk right past Kim Kardashian without a second glance.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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