"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The worth of GFTOW and your success using this technique

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GFTOW (Go **** Ten Other Women)

I have heard this advice over and over. I have not tested this, but I believe that it works. I just got out of a relationship and I make myself think that I need to do it (my ex dumped me).

Please post a success story of how GFTOW helped you after/during having one-itis and getting dumped by her/rejected by her...

Can someone explain the psychology of why this technique works, because I have been in only one relationship my whole life, and that may be why I don't get it yet.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is not a success story, but rather an interesting situation. I am a barback (Bartender trainee) in a restaurant. I meet lots of women through that job. One thought I was attractive, we flirted, and went out, not much happened, after a promising start.

OK, no problem, back to square one. There is a wedding coming up, this woman will be there, at first I thought it would be awkward, and a bit crappy, knowing I liked her, and she wasnt interested.

Enter the groom's sister. Now she likes/wants me, and let me know that she'd only have a good time at the wedding if I was there :D ....NOW this wedding is looking really interesting. Because now the competition thing comes into play, I am going into this knowing that I will be with one of them, on this wedding night, the one who basically will do more for me.

As soon as girl A. sees girl B. all over my s#it, girl A. is going to be pissed that all the attention is off her, and I have a feeling that she will redouble her efforts.
 

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lol. Umm, if you are capable of effing 10 other women within a short frame of time, you probably don't need this site.

GFTOW is more of a "hypothetical" kind of advice, meaning that if you were ****ing 10 other women, no one woman would be all that special to you (unless she was head and shoulders above all the rest).

****, for most guys reading this site (myself included) GF-1-OW is hard enough of a task, let alone 10.

peace
 

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Originally posted by bobbob
lol. Umm, if you are capable of effing 10 other women within a short frame of time, you probably don't need this site.

GFTOW is more of a "hypothetical" kind of advice, meaning that if you were ****ing 10 other women, no one woman would be all that special to you (unless she was head and shoulders above all the rest).

****, for most guys reading this site (myself included) GF-1-OW is hard enough of a task, let alone 10.

peace
yup, the advice is hypothetical. I don't think you are actually supposed to go have intercourse with 10 women (of course if you do, more power to you); but rather make an effort to meet/date/fvck multiple other girls - kill the oneitis
 

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I got mad oneitis for a girl while I was in France. She's coming to visit me this summer and I knew this oneitis would not stand. I'm four girls into my GFTOW plan and it's going great. I don't have this oneitis at all anymore - it's been replaced by a good and healthy and reciprocal connection. I wholeheartedly recommend actually going out and laying ten other women, though that actual number doesn't need to be met to fix your problem most of the time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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