"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The worth of GFTOW and your success using this technique

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GFTOW (Go **** Ten Other Women)

I have heard this advice over and over. I have not tested this, but I believe that it works. I just got out of a relationship and I make myself think that I need to do it (my ex dumped me).

Please post a success story of how GFTOW helped you after/during having one-itis and getting dumped by her/rejected by her...

Can someone explain the psychology of why this technique works, because I have been in only one relationship my whole life, and that may be why I don't get it yet.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is not a success story, but rather an interesting situation. I am a barback (Bartender trainee) in a restaurant. I meet lots of women through that job. One thought I was attractive, we flirted, and went out, not much happened, after a promising start.

OK, no problem, back to square one. There is a wedding coming up, this woman will be there, at first I thought it would be awkward, and a bit crappy, knowing I liked her, and she wasnt interested.

Enter the groom's sister. Now she likes/wants me, and let me know that she'd only have a good time at the wedding if I was there :D ....NOW this wedding is looking really interesting. Because now the competition thing comes into play, I am going into this knowing that I will be with one of them, on this wedding night, the one who basically will do more for me.

As soon as girl A. sees girl B. all over my s#it, girl A. is going to be pissed that all the attention is off her, and I have a feeling that she will redouble her efforts.
 

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lol. Umm, if you are capable of effing 10 other women within a short frame of time, you probably don't need this site.

GFTOW is more of a "hypothetical" kind of advice, meaning that if you were ****ing 10 other women, no one woman would be all that special to you (unless she was head and shoulders above all the rest).

****, for most guys reading this site (myself included) GF-1-OW is hard enough of a task, let alone 10.

peace
 

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Originally posted by bobbob
lol. Umm, if you are capable of effing 10 other women within a short frame of time, you probably don't need this site.

GFTOW is more of a "hypothetical" kind of advice, meaning that if you were ****ing 10 other women, no one woman would be all that special to you (unless she was head and shoulders above all the rest).

****, for most guys reading this site (myself included) GF-1-OW is hard enough of a task, let alone 10.

peace
yup, the advice is hypothetical. I don't think you are actually supposed to go have intercourse with 10 women (of course if you do, more power to you); but rather make an effort to meet/date/fvck multiple other girls - kill the oneitis
 

naoi deag se deag

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I got mad oneitis for a girl while I was in France. She's coming to visit me this summer and I knew this oneitis would not stand. I'm four girls into my GFTOW plan and it's going great. I don't have this oneitis at all anymore - it's been replaced by a good and healthy and reciprocal connection. I wholeheartedly recommend actually going out and laying ten other women, though that actual number doesn't need to be met to fix your problem most of the time.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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