"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The worth of GFTOW and your success using this technique

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GFTOW (Go **** Ten Other Women)

I have heard this advice over and over. I have not tested this, but I believe that it works. I just got out of a relationship and I make myself think that I need to do it (my ex dumped me).

Please post a success story of how GFTOW helped you after/during having one-itis and getting dumped by her/rejected by her...

Can someone explain the psychology of why this technique works, because I have been in only one relationship my whole life, and that may be why I don't get it yet.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is not a success story, but rather an interesting situation. I am a barback (Bartender trainee) in a restaurant. I meet lots of women through that job. One thought I was attractive, we flirted, and went out, not much happened, after a promising start.

OK, no problem, back to square one. There is a wedding coming up, this woman will be there, at first I thought it would be awkward, and a bit crappy, knowing I liked her, and she wasnt interested.

Enter the groom's sister. Now she likes/wants me, and let me know that she'd only have a good time at the wedding if I was there :D ....NOW this wedding is looking really interesting. Because now the competition thing comes into play, I am going into this knowing that I will be with one of them, on this wedding night, the one who basically will do more for me.

As soon as girl A. sees girl B. all over my s#it, girl A. is going to be pissed that all the attention is off her, and I have a feeling that she will redouble her efforts.
 

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lol. Umm, if you are capable of effing 10 other women within a short frame of time, you probably don't need this site.

GFTOW is more of a "hypothetical" kind of advice, meaning that if you were ****ing 10 other women, no one woman would be all that special to you (unless she was head and shoulders above all the rest).

****, for most guys reading this site (myself included) GF-1-OW is hard enough of a task, let alone 10.

peace
 

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Originally posted by bobbob
lol. Umm, if you are capable of effing 10 other women within a short frame of time, you probably don't need this site.

GFTOW is more of a "hypothetical" kind of advice, meaning that if you were ****ing 10 other women, no one woman would be all that special to you (unless she was head and shoulders above all the rest).

****, for most guys reading this site (myself included) GF-1-OW is hard enough of a task, let alone 10.

peace
yup, the advice is hypothetical. I don't think you are actually supposed to go have intercourse with 10 women (of course if you do, more power to you); but rather make an effort to meet/date/fvck multiple other girls - kill the oneitis
 

naoi deag se deag

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I got mad oneitis for a girl while I was in France. She's coming to visit me this summer and I knew this oneitis would not stand. I'm four girls into my GFTOW plan and it's going great. I don't have this oneitis at all anymore - it's been replaced by a good and healthy and reciprocal connection. I wholeheartedly recommend actually going out and laying ten other women, though that actual number doesn't need to be met to fix your problem most of the time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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