"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The Worst Texted Word
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She actually suddenly confessed her love when I tried to end it over um.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Exactly.
I would love to hear Neil's girls talk about him behind his back.
It's like he's 99% of the way there, but he can't shed his last 1% of that blue pill fantasy, and that fantasy is confusing his perceptions of reality.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Haha.
Yea lately I've been jerking it 3-4 times/day.
I've been good the last couple days though.
I have fun getting hot girls to agree to meet me from SA, but then I never go through with it. Idk why. It's not just the money that I'm spending, it's...
Well I don't really know why I don't meet them. It's like the fun is just in getting them to agree.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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If you're jerking it 3-4 times s day. You don't have enough **** during the day to do.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That said, I have a new strategy of pushing their buttons on purpose - cancelling a date, withdrawing the offer, etc.
In this case I got to know her a little better (I started my post earlier about rapport based on her). You quickly learn whether she is evil or sweet when you cancel on her. But promise to make it up to them.
zekko
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I have to agree with this. I'm convinced Neil is madder than a hatter, but he's living his dream, I guess.
We all want different things.