"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The Worst Texted Word
- Thread starter bigneil
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She actually suddenly confessed her love when I tried to end it over um.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Exactly.
I would love to hear Neil's girls talk about him behind his back.
It's like he's 99% of the way there, but he can't shed his last 1% of that blue pill fantasy, and that fantasy is confusing his perceptions of reality.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Haha.
Yea lately I've been jerking it 3-4 times/day.
I've been good the last couple days though.
I have fun getting hot girls to agree to meet me from SA, but then I never go through with it. Idk why. It's not just the money that I'm spending, it's...
Well I don't really know why I don't meet them. It's like the fun is just in getting them to agree.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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If you're jerking it 3-4 times s day. You don't have enough **** during the day to do.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
That said, I have a new strategy of pushing their buttons on purpose - cancelling a date, withdrawing the offer, etc.
In this case I got to know her a little better (I started my post earlier about rapport based on her). You quickly learn whether she is evil or sweet when you cancel on her. But promise to make it up to them.
zekko
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I have to agree with this. I'm convinced Neil is madder than a hatter, but he's living his dream, I guess.
We all want different things.