"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The Worst Texted Word
- Thread starter bigneil
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She actually suddenly confessed her love when I tried to end it over um.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
RichardTheFrog
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Exactly.
I would love to hear Neil's girls talk about him behind his back.
It's like he's 99% of the way there, but he can't shed his last 1% of that blue pill fantasy, and that fantasy is confusing his perceptions of reality.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Haha.
Yea lately I've been jerking it 3-4 times/day.
I've been good the last couple days though.
I have fun getting hot girls to agree to meet me from SA, but then I never go through with it. Idk why. It's not just the money that I'm spending, it's...
Well I don't really know why I don't meet them. It's like the fun is just in getting them to agree.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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If you're jerking it 3-4 times s day. You don't have enough **** during the day to do.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That said, I have a new strategy of pushing their buttons on purpose - cancelling a date, withdrawing the offer, etc.
In this case I got to know her a little better (I started my post earlier about rapport based on her). You quickly learn whether she is evil or sweet when you cancel on her. But promise to make it up to them.
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I have to agree with this. I'm convinced Neil is madder than a hatter, but he's living his dream, I guess.
We all want different things.