Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Lol oh great another one of these people...people like this need to stop being so damn ignorant and just realize that the whole 2012 theory is no more real than Y2K. All it is is just a "theory" for a bunch of easily tricked people to believe that the world is going to end.AlmostThere! said:Or at least the way of life will be changed dramatically. It may be 2012, but definitely within the next 10 years.
I believe this wholeheartedly.
I never told anyone this, but this is the reason why I feel like I need to find a relationship now. I've reached many of my goals in life. But I never had a female love me and I loved her. I think this is a BIG part of being a man. Having a woman. A woman doesn't complete a man, but having a female love you is a GREAT feeling. Sadly, I didn't even have high school "love".
Anyway, after hearing about another earthquake and tsunami...my beliefs on the end of this world has only been made stronger.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Alle_Gory said:You know, that was just a movie right?
The mayan calendar doesn't actually end on 2012. It's just the beginning of a new calendar on that date.
You know, if you'd be more open to ideas about improving your life and with women as you are with dumb sh*t like this you'd be a lot better off.
Don't listen to the smart people here, turn on that boob tube and listen to the loudest idiot. Then you can come here and complain to people who are actually trying to help you.
Atta boy. Keep it up sport.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Y2K was a real problem that many people spent many hours fixing.eaglez1177 said:Lol oh great another one of these people...people like this need to stop being so damn ignorant and just realize that the whole 2012 theory is no more real than Y2K. All it is is just a "theory" for a bunch of easily tricked people to believe that the world is going to end.
mrRuckus said:Y2K was a real problem that many people spent many hours fixing.
No one told the media to blow it out of proportion.
2012 is just made up.
AlmostThere! said:Or at least the way of life will be changed dramatically. It may be 2012, but definitely within the next 10 years.
I believe this wholeheartedly.
I never told anyone this, but this is the reason why I feel like I need to find a relationship now. I've reached many of my goals in life. But I never had a female love me and I loved her. I think this is a BIG part of being a man. Having a woman. A woman doesn't complete a man, but having a female love you is a GREAT feeling. Sadly, I didn't even have high school "love".
Anyway, after hearing about another earthquake and tsunami...my beliefs on the end of this world has only been made stronger.
Let me get this straight... in a forum that is just to "Get chicks" or attract whatever, you're pulling the "dependency on women" thing?Pimp-sicle said:Get over your dependency on women for your happiness. You can keep saying that a "woman doesn't complete a man" but those are words you've memorized from reading here; not your own thoughts. If you keep depending on women...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The other guy is right. Too many of these guys' confidence levels rise and fall because of women. First thing he needs to do is develop a life that doesn't crumble every time a woman leaves his life.GetOveIT said:Let me get this straight... in a forum that is just to "Get chicks" or attract whatever, you're pulling the "dependency on women" thing?
Its like an alcoholic advertising AA with one bottle of whiskey in the pocket it just too ironic... better to say dont get hung up on a woman that doesnt like you, just move on, and whatever you do dont fall in love too soon or too fast.
Your country's current state of affairs is the work of former Presidential Disgrace George W. Bush. Obama's not helping much, but he didn't make things the way they are.5string said:I'd worry about Obama before I'd be concerned about an earthquake or a tsunami.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Before you flame me further, let me say that I absolutely agree with you about Bush. Feel better now? By the way, what time does Glenn Beck come on so I can check him out? Go get yourself a double tall non-fat latte and have a good day.Alle_Gory said:Your country's current state of affairs is the work of former Presidential Disgrace George W. Bush. Obama's not helping much, but he didn't make things the way they are.
Go back to your bomb shelter. I hear Glenn Beck is on.
Because he's an elitist!!!!!5string said:Before you flame me further, let me say that I absolutely agree with you about Bush. Feel better now? By the way, what time does Glenn Beck come on so I can check him out? Go get yourself a double tall non-fat latte and have a good day.
Stop being a tool.5string said:Go get yourself a double tall non-fat latte and have a good day.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.