"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The World According to Women...

everywomanshero

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I've never been a big fan of dating advice given by women. I think they often give much worse advice than men. Tonight I met with several women and asked them to devise a game plan for men who want to PU in grocery stores. This is what they came up with. I have no hand in this and have not even tested it......... this is all according to women. I am just passing along info a couple of board members asked for out of the horses mouth :)

Protocol for Grocery Stores:

Say HI
IF no answer
Walk Away
Else
Ask her What She's doing / What she's looking for.
CONTINUE conversation until you get #
WAIT 2 days before calling
TERMINATE conversation in less than an hour to an hour tops.

Personally, I'd try to extract her right then or at least kiss her, but then I am not a woman (thankfully).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by everywomanshero
I've never been a big fan of dating advice given by women. I think they often give much worse advice than men. Tonight I met with several women and asked them to devise a game plan for men who want to PU in grocery stores. This is what they came up with. I have no hand in this and have not even tested it......... this is all according to women. I am just passing along info a couple of board members asked for out of the horses mouth :)

Protocol for Grocery Stores:

Say HI
IF no answer
Walk Away
Else
Ask her What She's doing / What she's looking for.
CONTINUE conversation until you get #
WAIT 2 days before calling
TERMINATE conversation in less than an hour to an hour tops.

Personally, I'd try to extract her right then or at least kiss her, but then I am not a woman (thankfully).
I'm not stupid, many will tell you YOUR approach sucks. Or tell you ways to improve YOUR approach.

THEIR approach sucks. I've never tried a grocery store approach. Doesn't seem to appealing to a 22 year old male.

"Hi"
"oh. hello" -confused - fine to this point.
"What are you doing?" || "What are you looking for?"
"shopping." DUH! || "Nothing, Filling my pantry." DUH!

an HOUR conversation. OH you can cut it short, maybe 40 minutes. WHO THE F*CK (man or woman) WANTS TO HANG OUT IN A GROCERY STORE TALKING TO A STRANGER FOR AN HOUR?

Thank you EWH for field testing the advice women will give. Saves me time asking them and rejecting their ideas.
 
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