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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

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I've never been a big fan of dating advice given by women. I think they often give much worse advice than men. Tonight I met with several women and asked them to devise a game plan for men who want to PU in grocery stores. This is what they came up with. I have no hand in this and have not even tested it......... this is all according to women. I am just passing along info a couple of board members asked for out of the horses mouth :)

Protocol for Grocery Stores:

Say HI
IF no answer
Walk Away
Else
Ask her What She's doing / What she's looking for.
CONTINUE conversation until you get #
WAIT 2 days before calling
TERMINATE conversation in less than an hour to an hour tops.

Personally, I'd try to extract her right then or at least kiss her, but then I am not a woman (thankfully).
 

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Originally posted by everywomanshero
I've never been a big fan of dating advice given by women. I think they often give much worse advice than men. Tonight I met with several women and asked them to devise a game plan for men who want to PU in grocery stores. This is what they came up with. I have no hand in this and have not even tested it......... this is all according to women. I am just passing along info a couple of board members asked for out of the horses mouth :)

Protocol for Grocery Stores:

Say HI
IF no answer
Walk Away
Else
Ask her What She's doing / What she's looking for.
CONTINUE conversation until you get #
WAIT 2 days before calling
TERMINATE conversation in less than an hour to an hour tops.

Personally, I'd try to extract her right then or at least kiss her, but then I am not a woman (thankfully).
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I'm not stupid, many will tell you YOUR approach sucks. Or tell you ways to improve YOUR approach.

THEIR approach sucks. I've never tried a grocery store approach. Doesn't seem to appealing to a 22 year old male.

"Hi"
"oh. hello" -confused - fine to this point.
"What are you doing?" || "What are you looking for?"
"shopping." DUH! || "Nothing, Filling my pantry." DUH!

an HOUR conversation. OH you can cut it short, maybe 40 minutes. WHO THE F*CK (man or woman) WANTS TO HANG OUT IN A GROCERY STORE TALKING TO A STRANGER FOR AN HOUR?

Thank you EWH for field testing the advice women will give. Saves me time asking them and rejecting their ideas.
 
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