"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The wink and smooch

aBAzLLnA

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Anyone here use either the wink or the smooch? I've thought about using it, but whenever I get the chance i forget to try it out.

Was wondering how well it worked?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I use the wink very often.... Use quick winks with a roguish smile. Even if you get a negative reaction, keep the smile. Also only wink once and make it a quick one.

Smooch? Depend on what you mean... I blow kisses to my girl "friends". Sometimes I will blow a kiss to a girl who stares at me or winks at me... High IL.

Remember this is more for fun than an actual pick up technique.
 

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a wink would be cute. Id like that depending on who it was and the situation.

but a smooch? Not unless he knows me. It would be a little creepy from someone I didnt know. Even if it was like Brad Pitt or something! ;)
 

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Oh, i meant smooch as in "air smooch". No actual contact.
 

Lola

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i know what you mean. I think its a little creepy. JMO though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hay Lola glad to have you here. Its good to here a female opinion(im assuming your a female and not some perv who is pretending ?) Just curious whats your age?
 

Lola

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thanks.this is a pretty cool site. Its nice to read what you guys think. Im 25 :D and yep, all woman
 

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All woman huh? If you were from CT id ask you to prove it
 

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youre a flirt huh? I like that. Why only if I was from CT? :p ;)
 

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well how else are you going to get to my house?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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