"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The wink and smooch

aBAzLLnA

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Anyone here use either the wink or the smooch? I've thought about using it, but whenever I get the chance i forget to try it out.

Was wondering how well it worked?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I use the wink very often.... Use quick winks with a roguish smile. Even if you get a negative reaction, keep the smile. Also only wink once and make it a quick one.

Smooch? Depend on what you mean... I blow kisses to my girl "friends". Sometimes I will blow a kiss to a girl who stares at me or winks at me... High IL.

Remember this is more for fun than an actual pick up technique.
 

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a wink would be cute. Id like that depending on who it was and the situation.

but a smooch? Not unless he knows me. It would be a little creepy from someone I didnt know. Even if it was like Brad Pitt or something! ;)
 

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Oh, i meant smooch as in "air smooch". No actual contact.
 

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i know what you mean. I think its a little creepy. JMO though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hay Lola glad to have you here. Its good to here a female opinion(im assuming your a female and not some perv who is pretending ?) Just curious whats your age?
 

Lola

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thanks.this is a pretty cool site. Its nice to read what you guys think. Im 25 :D and yep, all woman
 

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All woman huh? If you were from CT id ask you to prove it
 

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youre a flirt huh? I like that. Why only if I was from CT? :p ;)
 

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well how else are you going to get to my house?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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