"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The whole internet thing

GaryNas

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I keep reading about guys on here talking with girls online. I'm definitely not into looking for an online relationship or whatever, but practicing convo skills would be nice. So where do you guys go? I signed up for this friendster thing, but it says I have to add friends and build a network. I tried doing searches, but everytime 0 results are returned. So that seems like a dud (or maybe I'm doing something wrong).

What else is there? I only use ICQ as an IM, but nobody is really on there any more except a few of my real life friends...

Help!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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FreeStyleZ

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go into AOL chat rooms i guess...... or run a search through profiles for ur state
 

Lifeforce

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Practice convo skills in the real world, with real people. Much of your language doesn't come from what you say but the tone you use and the way you move your body. In other words, you will never learn a thing from online conversations because you can't implement it into real life. I hope every Online-DJs reads this.
 

gav

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i totally agree with lifeforce.

one other important disctinction - in real life u have to think on ure feet.
 

Diaoz

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You have to add people to be able to see other people. It basically allows you to see your friend's friends and your friend's friend's friends etc...anyway, I just started the friendster So Suave group, join us. First Name: So Suave Last Name: Online
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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I hate chatting with girls online. It is incredibly lame and there is absolutely no excitment or mystery.

I know some guys who spend days at a time literally just chatting with people through MSN messenger and such.

I use messenger to send brief messages to friends and such but to have a conversation, I'd much rather meet in person or at least over the phone.

It's like people are getting used to hiding behind their computer screen and would rather do that than experience real human interaction.

I guess the same could be said about this forum.:p
 
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