Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The whole internet thing

GaryNas

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I keep reading about guys on here talking with girls online. I'm definitely not into looking for an online relationship or whatever, but practicing convo skills would be nice. So where do you guys go? I signed up for this friendster thing, but it says I have to add friends and build a network. I tried doing searches, but everytime 0 results are returned. So that seems like a dud (or maybe I'm doing something wrong).

What else is there? I only use ICQ as an IM, but nobody is really on there any more except a few of my real life friends...

Help!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FreeStyleZ

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go into AOL chat rooms i guess...... or run a search through profiles for ur state
 

Lifeforce

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Practice convo skills in the real world, with real people. Much of your language doesn't come from what you say but the tone you use and the way you move your body. In other words, you will never learn a thing from online conversations because you can't implement it into real life. I hope every Online-DJs reads this.
 

gav

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i totally agree with lifeforce.

one other important disctinction - in real life u have to think on ure feet.
 

Diaoz

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You have to add people to be able to see other people. It basically allows you to see your friend's friends and your friend's friend's friends etc...anyway, I just started the friendster So Suave group, join us. First Name: So Suave Last Name: Online
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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I hate chatting with girls online. It is incredibly lame and there is absolutely no excitment or mystery.

I know some guys who spend days at a time literally just chatting with people through MSN messenger and such.

I use messenger to send brief messages to friends and such but to have a conversation, I'd much rather meet in person or at least over the phone.

It's like people are getting used to hiding behind their computer screen and would rather do that than experience real human interaction.

I guess the same could be said about this forum.:p
 
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