I had a lot of hope for you Reset, but this ended all that hope :woo: .HOMBRE said:And you may have fooled reset and other nice people on here
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I had a lot of hope for you Reset, but this ended all that hope :woo: .HOMBRE said:And you may have fooled reset and other nice people on here
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I am not on anyone's side. That is really immature.ketostix said:Iqqi, who side are you on? Hmm, thinks back to iqqi's condescending posts in the "Love Shack fiasco". Then a poster "Iqqi", goes over and posts on LS, with the same defiant, condescending attitude. Hmm, that's a tough one!
GET NEW BATTERIES!!I just have a very good BS detector. And you may have fooled reset and other nice people on here, but you don't fool me for one second.
Cheers, I'm a laff riot.HOMBRE said:Why would I do that?
Oh and I laughed at your comment earlier but neglected to acknowledge it. At least someone around here has a sense of humor!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You mean you'd frantically press your 'alert us' buttons and your pet Mods would silence us?HOMBRE said::crackup: :crackup: :crackup: In your dreams, sweetie. Wow, this is a trip...too funny. No wonder some of you didn't last on LS. We'd chew you up and spit you out! ahaha
You're getting played dude, she's trying to turn you dudes against me. I'm really, really hurt and threatened by it. Maybe she thinks I'm more receptive and is appealing to my ego.ketostix said:I had a lot of hope for you Reset, but this ended all that hope :woo: .
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yup, she's toast. I'm putting it on ignore as well. Adios b!tch.Latinoman said:Hombre ignored me (see post #68 )
Good for her as I owned her too.
Yeah LOL they want a play ball with one-sided referees and everytime they lose a play they yell foul to their refs..Nighthawk said:You mean you'd frantically press your 'alert us' buttons and your pet Mods would silence us?
iqqi said:I am not on anyone's side. That is really immature.
I am just keeping it real.
I hope noone got offended, but then again I'm not going to sugarcoat it, why would you want me to.
Interceptor, sorry I offended you, but sometimes you DO come across as kind of phony when you start off saying one thing, but then you get into something else altogether, it does kind of seem like you are trying to pull a fast one, and while that approach works well with a lot of people, and with others it just doesn't fly.
UG 8Nighthawk said:All the ladies of Loveshack are putting up their pics for us. Here's Kamille - be quick
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/member.php?u=29590
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
reset said:You're getting played dude, she's trying to turn you dudes against me. I'm really, really hurt and threatened by it. Maybe she thinks I'm more receptive and is appealing to my ego.
Not working. If you can't see through that, don't know what to say.
Beware of the fake pic. That's not too bad, you can almost see up her dress some. But they're going to have to do better than that.Nighthawk said:All the ladies of Loveshack are putting up their pics for us. Here's Kamille - be quick
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/member.php?u=29590
Is that what it was? Could be. Either way she's playing us off each other and I've been here way too long and known you guys too long to bite.ketostix said:I'm just messing with you. She actually trying to play you and get you on her side and turn you against us. I see that you realize she's up to playing someone. I knew this all along. This female tactic is so common and old hat :yawn: .
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.