"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HOMBRE said:
And you may have fooled reset and other nice people on here
I had a lot of hope for you Reset, but this ended all that hope :woo: .
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ketostix said:
Iqqi, who side are you on? Hmm, thinks back to iqqi's condescending posts in the "Love Shack fiasco". Then a poster "Iqqi", goes over and posts on LS, with the same defiant, condescending attitude. Hmm, that's a tough one!
I am not on anyone's side. That is really immature.

I am just keeping it real.

I hope noone got offended, but then again I'm not going to sugarcoat it, why would you want me to.

Interceptor, sorry I offended you, but sometimes you DO come across as kind of phony when you start off saying one thing, but then you get into something else altogether, it does kind of seem like you are trying to pull a fast one, and while that approach works well with a lot of people, and with others it just doesn't fly.
 

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I just have a very good BS detector. And you may have fooled reset and other nice people on here, but you don't fool me for one second.
GET NEW BATTERIES!!
IT AINT WORKING, Darling


Geez.....
I can't believe I'm reading this.
 

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HOMBRE said:
Why would I do that?

Oh and I laughed at your comment earlier but neglected to acknowledge it. At least someone around here has a sense of humor!
Cheers, I'm a laff riot.

Seems you and the She-Shackers, like a lot of women, have the same handy bag of demeaning and emasculating put-downs. 'Little Boy,' 'Virgins,' 'Sad,' 'Boring' 'Hopeless' and as was discussed at length at LS 'Creepy.' We know these shaming tactics and they're not the Kryptonite they might be to lesser men.
 
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Iqqi stay out of this, we like you. Please don't change that now.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women don't deserve to be on this forum, they never give good advice, and they always attack our posters.
 

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One question:

HOW DOES THIS THREAD HELP ANYBODY TO GET CHICKS OR TO GROW AS MEN?

All I see is a bunch of nerds trying to see who has the biggest E-Penis.

It seems that the ladies from Loveshack seem to have a bigger penis than the nerds from sosuave. I didn't expect some of the members on here to actually join into this childish game.
 

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Hombre ignored me (see post #68 )

Good for her as I owned her too.
 

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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: In your dreams, sweetie. Wow, this is a trip...too funny. No wonder some of you didn't last on LS. We'd chew you up and spit you out! ahaha
You mean you'd frantically press your 'alert us' buttons and your pet Mods would silence us?
 

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I had a lot of hope for you Reset, but this ended all that hope :woo: .
You're getting played dude, she's trying to turn you dudes against me. I'm really, really hurt and threatened by it. Maybe she thinks I'm more receptive and is appealing to my ego.

Not working. If you can't see through that, don't know what to say.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Latinoman said:
Hombre ignored me (see post #68 )

Good for her as I owned her too.
Yup, she's toast. I'm putting it on ignore as well. Adios b!tch.
 

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Nighthawk said:
You mean you'd frantically press your 'alert us' buttons and your pet Mods would silence us?
Yeah LOL they want a play ball with one-sided referees and everytime they lose a play they yell foul to their refs..
 

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iqqi said:
I am not on anyone's side. That is really immature.

I am just keeping it real.

I hope noone got offended, but then again I'm not going to sugarcoat it, why would you want me to.

Interceptor, sorry I offended you, but sometimes you DO come across as kind of phony when you start off saying one thing, but then you get into something else altogether, it does kind of seem like you are trying to pull a fast one, and while that approach works well with a lot of people, and with others it just doesn't fly.

Iqqi, maybe youre under the assumption that Im a journalist intentionally trying to reach a mass audience.
And that I spend days planning every reply. I dont
So sue me...


Im not here to live up to anyone's expectations, especially of what some stranger thinks I SHOULD be posting, or what my 'style' SHOULD be.

It's delusional.




It also seems strange that YOU and Touche are the ONLY ones who have ever brought this up, despite dozens upon dozens of PMs saying the contrary.

It is also strange that you two would actually called what is known to educated people as Class and MANNERS as 'sugarcoating'.

Who taught you people?
I mean ..really...c'mon...


"pull a fast one" because I change subjects??

So I go off on a tangent, which happens to me sometimes, and I'm phony??

LOL

This is amusing in a way..



Jeez...




Good night.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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reset said:
You're getting played dude, she's trying to turn you dudes against me. I'm really, really hurt and threatened by it. Maybe she thinks I'm more receptive and is appealing to my ego.

Not working. If you can't see through that, don't know what to say.

I'm just messing with you. She actually trying to play you and get you on her side and turn you against us. I see that you realize she's up to playing someone. I knew this all along. This female tactic is so common and old hat :yawn: .
 

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Ella esta caliente por Latinoman.

ahaha, very funny! yeah, ok.

Anyway, bye guys. I'm bored with this nonsense. Hope you all continue to "grow" (What is it that's growing anyway? )

Ya'll are a trip. And don't forget bros before hoe's, right!:crackup:

You can go back to your little circle jerk now.

Wow, Nighthawk, you're Kryptonite? We have a member with that name. Interesting. Anyway, I've never called any of our fine male members any of those names.

Get new BATTERIES? LMAO! Too funny...actually mine run on solar power and I live in a very sunny place...ahahah

You guys are hysterical, seriously.

Hate on me all you want if it makes you feel better. It doesn't bother me. This will be fun to share with my buddies later on. So flame away, dears! It doesn't reflect that well on you but so be it...since many of you can't get a date, I hope this at least makes you feel better.

But again, some of you seem ok.

Iqqi, you're not going to let these "macho" men tell you what to do are you? You do have your own mind don't you?

I knew that I'd be hated on here because I see through the game and all the nonsense. But that's ok. I expected this.

I'm not one to suck up to you like some of the few women who probably come on here. They've obviously got huge, huge issues of their own to want to stick around here for too long. Iqqi, not sure how long you've been here but it's toxic. You shouldn't stay. RUN! Come back to LS..:crackup:

I think you'd be very well-received over there.
 

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I'm just messing with you. She actually trying to play you and get you on her side and turn you against us. I see that you realize she's up to playing someone. I knew this all along. This female tactic is so common and old hat :yawn: .
Is that what it was? Could be. Either way she's playing us off each other and I've been here way too long and known you guys too long to bite.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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