I had a lot of hope for you Reset, but this ended all that hope :woo: .HOMBRE said:And you may have fooled reset and other nice people on here
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I had a lot of hope for you Reset, but this ended all that hope :woo: .HOMBRE said:And you may have fooled reset and other nice people on here
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I am not on anyone's side. That is really immature.ketostix said:Iqqi, who side are you on? Hmm, thinks back to iqqi's condescending posts in the "Love Shack fiasco". Then a poster "Iqqi", goes over and posts on LS, with the same defiant, condescending attitude. Hmm, that's a tough one!
GET NEW BATTERIES!!I just have a very good BS detector. And you may have fooled reset and other nice people on here, but you don't fool me for one second.
Cheers, I'm a laff riot.HOMBRE said:Why would I do that?
Oh and I laughed at your comment earlier but neglected to acknowledge it. At least someone around here has a sense of humor!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You mean you'd frantically press your 'alert us' buttons and your pet Mods would silence us?HOMBRE said::crackup: :crackup: :crackup: In your dreams, sweetie. Wow, this is a trip...too funny. No wonder some of you didn't last on LS. We'd chew you up and spit you out! ahaha
You're getting played dude, she's trying to turn you dudes against me. I'm really, really hurt and threatened by it. Maybe she thinks I'm more receptive and is appealing to my ego.ketostix said:I had a lot of hope for you Reset, but this ended all that hope :woo: .
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yup, she's toast. I'm putting it on ignore as well. Adios b!tch.Latinoman said:Hombre ignored me (see post #68 )
Good for her as I owned her too.
Yeah LOL they want a play ball with one-sided referees and everytime they lose a play they yell foul to their refs..Nighthawk said:You mean you'd frantically press your 'alert us' buttons and your pet Mods would silence us?
iqqi said:I am not on anyone's side. That is really immature.
I am just keeping it real.
I hope noone got offended, but then again I'm not going to sugarcoat it, why would you want me to.
Interceptor, sorry I offended you, but sometimes you DO come across as kind of phony when you start off saying one thing, but then you get into something else altogether, it does kind of seem like you are trying to pull a fast one, and while that approach works well with a lot of people, and with others it just doesn't fly.
UG 8Nighthawk said:All the ladies of Loveshack are putting up their pics for us. Here's Kamille - be quick
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/member.php?u=29590
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
reset said:You're getting played dude, she's trying to turn you dudes against me. I'm really, really hurt and threatened by it. Maybe she thinks I'm more receptive and is appealing to my ego.
Not working. If you can't see through that, don't know what to say.
Beware of the fake pic. That's not too bad, you can almost see up her dress some. But they're going to have to do better than that.Nighthawk said:All the ladies of Loveshack are putting up their pics for us. Here's Kamille - be quick
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/member.php?u=29590
Is that what it was? Could be. Either way she's playing us off each other and I've been here way too long and known you guys too long to bite.ketostix said:I'm just messing with you. She actually trying to play you and get you on her side and turn you against us. I see that you realize she's up to playing someone. I knew this all along. This female tactic is so common and old hat :yawn: .
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.