Technical1
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Look at whats happening to SoSuave... a guy gets shouted down and "set straight" by a bunch of frumpy hagtards.
fvcking disgusting.
fvcking disgusting.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
The Way it Really Is Not.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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QFG (gospel)Nighthawk said:
A lot of girls act like this in real life. I wonder if these "DJs" b!tch and moan the same way to them like they do on here?
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Jack pretty much owned everyone in this thread including me.
Well played.
He has drawn out all the lovers of exciting drama!
Well played.
He has drawn out all the lovers of exciting drama!
Many of the women of Loveshack, whether they were there for the raid, or have heard about it since, are signing up because they have heard it is either a site of manly men or whiney wannabees or bitter woman-haters.
First, if it was a site they thought promoted, say a religion or being anti or pro-abortion, or the moon is made of cheese, they would have no interest. It's the supposed testosterone over here that is making them curious.
Now under these circumstances, the FIRST thing you can expect from a woman is a shit-test. Let's see how how manly and cool these guys really are when I call them names, try and shame them, change the subject, press their buttons, all the usual stuff you should understand.
The SSers that lose their temper easily, or show any bitterness get a FAIL and confirm to them that the site is not made of the men thet find attractive. Ones that allow the female to control the convo or wind up agreeing too much (haven't seen much of that from established members, some of the new LS men more so) will get a 'nice guy' pat on the head. Argue back without much style or wit and you kinda pass, but lose on the fun and charming part of the test.
You may not feel like passing tests here in our little sanctum of manliness, and want to save that for the real world. Fine, but it's the same set-up so recognise it.
First, if it was a site they thought promoted, say a religion or being anti or pro-abortion, or the moon is made of cheese, they would have no interest. It's the supposed testosterone over here that is making them curious.
Now under these circumstances, the FIRST thing you can expect from a woman is a shit-test. Let's see how how manly and cool these guys really are when I call them names, try and shame them, change the subject, press their buttons, all the usual stuff you should understand.
The SSers that lose their temper easily, or show any bitterness get a FAIL and confirm to them that the site is not made of the men thet find attractive. Ones that allow the female to control the convo or wind up agreeing too much (haven't seen much of that from established members, some of the new LS men more so) will get a 'nice guy' pat on the head. Argue back without much style or wit and you kinda pass, but lose on the fun and charming part of the test.
You may not feel like passing tests here in our little sanctum of manliness, and want to save that for the real world. Fine, but it's the same set-up so recognise it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
taiyuu_otoko
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Technical1 said:
frumpy hagtards:cheer: Man I love some of the insults here!
I live in a medium sized town in Japan where NOBODY speaks english, so I always throw out crazy nicknames at people with a smiling face and a japanese bow, and they just smile and return the gesture. I'll be throwin out some "frumpy hagtards" this week boy howdy! :crackup:
OP, I think "bad boys" get the ladies, but not just the bad boys. It's those men who don't care as much as the women that get them. I have had plenty of women in my life want me very badly, but I didn't really want them. The less I cared, the harder they tried. I can remember back in High School that I had a girl ask me to prom, and I told her I'd go if she payed for the limo and my tux. She did exactly that, but that was years ago.
Now, for the women I cared about and cared more than they did, they ditched me. So, my conclusion to whole game is that you can't let yourself care more than the woman. You have to be independently strong and decisive. Women want what they can't have.
If a woman is with you and she tries to change you, once you change, she'll dart. She wants that challenge and you don't have to be on drugs or have a criminal record to get her and keep her.
Now, for the women I cared about and cared more than they did, they ditched me. So, my conclusion to whole game is that you can't let yourself care more than the woman. You have to be independently strong and decisive. Women want what they can't have.
If a woman is with you and she tries to change you, once you change, she'll dart. She wants that challenge and you don't have to be on drugs or have a criminal record to get her and keep her.
You know I think you're right. I saw a lot of posts where guys were being downright mean and were calling women posters names. I can even name names. The lesson here is to be a MAN and not let the women of LS bother you or any other women for that matter. A real man doesn't care nor does he get caught up in arguments. Let's move on...reset said:
comic_relief
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Myself and JackPrescott have much different personalities and ways of gaming women.
That is the reason that I have deleted my post.
comic_relief
That is the reason that I have deleted my post.
comic_relief
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I'm the Chinese guy with the Spikes, and the other guy is your ex.iqqi said:
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Not in this lifetime Sweetie, and maybe if you lay off the Sammwiches and get on the treadmill and the Slimfast, mens will start looking at your ass again, instead of passing you by for the little 23 year olds. Jes tryin' to help. Help me, help you!iqqi said:Hahahahhaa, I just ate a sandwich!!!!
Jack made it.
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Only way dem ugly broads would be eating me is in an inappropriate way, and that wouldnt happen, as I dont allow HB2s to touch me, much less eat me.ThunderMaverick said:
comic_relief said:
change your name. you deleted your post because your embarassed. you showed us that you are NOT a player in this game. And your a weak ass captian save a hoe. You showed all your cards. Admit it to yourself and then you can change. Damn..you got almost 3000 posts and you still posting crap like that?
CHANGE YOUR FOCKING SCREEN NAME. CHANGE YOUR MINDSTATE. CHANGE YOUR LIFE.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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What posts were you reading, little boy? I EXPOSED those old, overweight maids for what they are, and they had a problem with it. They do get my admiration for their spunk, but that was as easy as their exes getting them on the first date.Technical1 said:
iqqi
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<claps>JackPrescott said:
Thanks Jack, ur my hero then!
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All women love jerks, heifer. Based on your previous choices in men, along with Sunny and the rest of the unloved, desperate, single not by choice women that try to act like their all that here on SS, you have made no progress.iqqi said:<claps>
Thanks Jack, ur my hero then!
I don't think bad boys get women or good guys get women ... I think guys with high social status/proof within a given environment get women. Sometimes that will be a bad boy in his cool gang of hard friends who know girls, other times a white middle class rugby playing guy at uni. If you're a loner who doesn't know any cool guys and cool girls then being a bad boy won't get you anywhere. Same with being a nice guy. Women may well take some abuse and whatnot if they feel who they are sexing has high social status. They'll also sex good guys with a high social status.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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