Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
And 99.9% of y’all would tap given the chance.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She is 55 now. A lot of the younger guys wouldn't be interested.And 99.9% of y’all would tap given the chance.
It's not just that, look at her upper arms, no muscle tone whatsoever. That gives an inkling of how her ass and thighs really look like. And there are guys giving her money on OF.And along comes reality. Without the makeup and lighting she turns in a 4. Sure she has some big bolt-ons but other than that her face is unrecognizable. I would venture to guess that most celebrities would get knocked down by half once you removed the makeup.
Your point?She is 55 now. A lot of the younger guys wouldn't be interested.
She was already a mom prior to her casting on Baywatch.
That the forum posters that are under 40-45 wouldn't be too interested in her. Many of the forum posters under 45 who do in-person approaches likely wouldn't even approach D'Errico if they saw her in public. They'd write her off as too old.Your point?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That the forum posters that are under 40-45 wouldn't be too interested in her. Many of the forum posters under 45 who do in-person approaches likely wouldn't even approach D'Errico if they saw her in public. They'd write her off as too old.
Well ,those two version of her are indeed reality. Because in reality a younger woman,or any woman can just as easily sell any man a dream by upping her own SMV 4 points. Some make up and a short skirt is all it takes. Even ugly women can and will be hunted as an easy meal.And along comes reality. Without the makeup and lighting she turns in a 4. Sure she has some big bolt-ons but other than that her face is unrecognizable. I would venture to guess that most celebrities would get knocked down by half once you removed the makeup.
Another reason to talk to girls in person. They won't have the same biotch-shield without filters.And along comes reality. Without the makeup and lighting she turns in a 4. Sure she has some big bolt-ons but other than that her face is unrecognizable. I would venture to guess that most celebrities would get knocked down by half once you removed the makeup.
There will always be a place in my heart for Pam Anderson, but when Carmen Electra's Lani McKenzie came along on the show later, my peen shot off my body.She was already a mom prior to her casting on Baywatch.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What he is trying to say is that if she comes to us and say "omg you're so hot, can I suck your D?" we would probably happily accept but if we were in the club and she asked to have a drink together we would easily pass.I’m sure that out of the maybe 5 or 6 active posters who go direct that is probably the case, the rest of the millionaires, models, and playas here are banging whatever they can - and lying about it, including older women - just won’t admit it.
Older chicks do sleep with (sometimes) younger men that are physically attractive - not basement mouth breathers as many would love to claim - those guys are coming from SOMEWHERE.
What he is trying to say is that if she comes to us and say "omg you're so hot, can I suck your D?" we would probably happily accept but if we were in the club and she asked to have a drink together we would easily pass.
It's certainly not ego.Simple ladder theory. So many guys here trying to flex, but I don’t get why?
You're making things more complicate than what they are, its not about showing off or bragging online.Simple ladder theory. So many guys here trying to flex, but I don’t get why?
We've all gathered in this intellectual coliseum for the purpose of learning, sharing ideas, and yes, comparing notes. But alas, this noble pursuit descends into a circus when some try to puff their chests and paint a pretentious image of only sleeping with women under the ripe age of 30. Oh, the irony! These same characters are sneaking around with older women, spinning yarns to hide their exploits.
Gentlemen, let's be clear: none of us have the slightest interest in your bedtime activities. Your perfect 10 might be my passable 6, and who gives a flying fig? It's all subjective!
Enough with the ridiculous posturing already.
Here's a reality check: over half of you probably aren't getting lucky once a week, let alone wowing legions of stunners with your so-called 'irresistible charm'.
And then we have the 35% club, who are undoubtedly wooing women of lower value than they proudly claim.
Sure, the top-tier blokes, the golden 5-10%, are hitting it off with the high scorers. But is that some kind of revelation?
Now, for you young 'uns in the crowd, listen to this nugget of wisdom aged to perfection: the loudest mouths setting the 'standards' are mostly armchair warriors. Living in their bubble of fantasy, they're often the biggest fibbers in the room. So, take their words with a pinch of salt!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You're making things more complicate than what they are, it’s not about showing off or bragging online.
If there was a chubby girl that made my D hard, I would easily bang her...the fact is that it doesnt happen as much as it doesnt happen with these oldies you strongly feel the need to promote.
Most guys would get a BJ if it didnt required any effort while those same guys wouldnt work on her in a club, it's really that simple.
It's not about rejecting an opportunity to prove a point, it's just that many guys simply are not into milfs or women with (or without) certain features.
Sometime it seems like a forum for women where anytime a man tries to talk about his standards he gets called "insecure" or liar.
Accept the fact that many men even those in the middle of dry spells would rather not have certain kind of women, let alone put some effort into them...kudos to you if like them cause it will surealy make your life easier regardless your age.